my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 weeks. we see eachother almost every day. even if we don't actually hang out we at least see eachother. like there are the days that we just call eachother and leave it at that, but as often as possible we see eachother. now this is all new to me because i have been single for nine months and before that i was in a two year relationship with a guy i only saw like once a week. i love spending time with my bf and he loves spending time with me, but are we overdoing it? neither one of us has any trouble spending time apart. we are having sex but not very often. the sex is good we just don't feel we have to **** like stoned test bunnies all the time. sometimes we just cuddle and watch a movie or go for a drive. but sometimes i do want my alone time, but at the same time i want to be with him. as long as none of us feel crowded we should be okay? right?
2006-09-25 03:25:26 · 16 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guys are doing just great. it's healthy for new relationships to spend as much time so that you get to know each other better and the excitement level is very high that there's nothing seem to go wrong no matter what the other says or do. you feel so in love all the time so do savor that moments. those are part of what will make your relationship stronger.
later in the relationship, like when you've been together for a year or so, the excitement will lie low but it's ok and it's because you know your relationship is becoming more stable and both of you are growing maturely as individuals.
so just enjoy the relationship and do not only make each other happy but make your partner the best he/she can always be. =)
2006-09-25 03:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not usually expected that two people see each other so much because it seems that going from enjoying the time to feeling crowded happens very quickly, and when it does, its difficult to tell the other person that you're getting sick of them without offending them or hurting them. However, people differ. Some couples are just able to sustain a level of comfort being around each other often for long periods of time. The way I see it, as long as you are able to communicate how you feel honsetly, you should be able to say "Look, I really enjoy spending all this time with you. If you start to feel like its too much, you can just come out and tell me and I'll understand. And I'll do the same" you should be fine.
2006-09-25 10:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are the same way, We have been with each other now for over 2 years every single day, because I work from home. i seems that we just get better the more time we spend with each other, and just like you, just because we are together all the time, that does not mean that we have to **** all the time, there is a time for that. Mostly, it is just cuddling, and talking. Of course, we **** more than usual, but we enjoy are quality time.
Keep up the good work, sounds like you have a great relationship!!
2006-09-25 10:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The key to a healthy relationship is to have good communication and to continue having YOUR own life. If someone starts to feel crowded you should back off a lil' and encourage going out and doing other things with other people. I learned the hard way, I was with my ex all day, every day and we only hung out with each other. This lead to us taking stuff out on each other instead of having someone to vent to. Sometimes good things become old very quickly when you try to hang on too tight. Good luck!
2006-09-25 10:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are making time for each other that is the most important thing. Usually for me work gets in the way when it comes time to do things in a relationship. It seems like you are on the right path.
2006-09-25 10:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, only you/he can answer this. But, I will tell you this...my DH and I spend every minute we can together when he is not on Duty or Training. We love spending our time together and have a wonderful marriage. And when he is gone, we talk on the phone about 5-6 times a day....
2006-09-25 10:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that there is nothing wrong with seeing your boyfriend a lot..just as long as you don't feel crowded, it's ok! however, i would advise you to have space from each other..just enough for you to spend time with yourself & enough time for you to miss each other..the bad thing about seeing each other a lot is that you tend to build your world around each other that it is really hard to move on once you guys break up..i had a 2 year relationship with my ex-boyfriend which i see EVERYDAY..when we broke up, it was really hell! it was really hard to move on coz i was used to living my daily life with him..and oh, please do remember that you guys never have to really have sex a lot..making memories & having quality time is more important..Ã
2006-09-25 10:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you aren't neglecting all your other friends and your family. It will be a problem if you both isolate yourselves from the other people in your life. Make time for them as well and enjoy your man! :)
2006-09-25 10:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by gidget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you shouldn't crowd each other. But it doesn't seem to me that you're doing that. Just enjoy his company and don't stress about anything else. It sounds like a good relationship to me. :) Enjoy
2006-09-25 10:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Smiles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all sound very fine to me. but what is this stress about if its just a 3 week relationshop. How can you say that you have sex but not very often... how many times were you expecting in just three weeks??
2006-09-25 10:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋