hugging, holding hands, kissing is fine but how do u know he's doing it out of affection n not just for his personal pleasure...
2006-09-25 03:24:51 · 6 answers · asked by dawink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he acts inpatient like he's waiting for somthing to happen hes in it for the lust. If he calls you alot and does not like 2 talk dirty and wants to know how your day is and just listen and like holding you alot (not in a sexual way but a comforting way) then you can tell.
2006-09-25 03:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Cooker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal pleasure is a big part of affection. Don't you receive some personal pleasure from his affection? It is perfectly normal to enjoy that.
If you and your guy are involved in other activities and conversations outside of the physical attention and enjoy each others company otherwise, then you know he is there for more that just personal pleasure.
2006-09-25 03:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say firstly driven by lust then love if you both enjoy the physical pleasure the love comes into it !!! if you know your heart or follow your heart you will know within a short time surely for both has to be physical pleasure if you also enjoy each others company the love and emotions follow suit for each other i feel if you know your emotions as well as you think you do go for it but keep in ,mind it is as much for you as for him
cowboy5
2006-09-25 03:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by cowboy5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need 2 weeks to think of him and if you want to be with him, and tell him to do the same. And tell him no seeing anyone else. If he does, you got your answer.
2006-09-25 03:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you stop having sex with him if he is still around
2006-09-25 03:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-09-25 03:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋