Confused??!?!?!?
Guy problems??
I am in high school and me and this guy have been TALKING for 3 years....we have never gotten to the dating part it has just stayed at talking...We have gotten past the i like u do u like me stuff....and we both like eachother.....And we both care 4 eachother ALOT...but yet we still are just friends....it's weird because when he wants to try 2 get with me i am supposodly "moved on" and when i am tryin 2 get with him.....it's like umm.....we have been off and on for a while now....any advice???
I think i might even be in love with him and i'm scared to move on and everytime i do move on we always end up talkin again
2006-09-25 02:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to graduate and mature a bit first.
2006-09-25 03:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, your still young and have plenty of time for a serious relationship. Don't wait for him to make a decision go out with other guys and see what happens. Let him come to you if he wants to be more than friends. If he thinks that you will wait for him he will keep playing you as the fool you're acting like right now. See what is out there for you girl. Have fun!!
2006-09-25 10:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by proudwmn69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple way to move forward is the do or die method.
Next time you see him kiss him.
See where it goes from there.
It should either bloom in to a relationship or prove once and for all that no relationship is going to happen.
Either way it will stop you worrying.
Good luck.
2006-09-25 10:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by StoneWeasel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you too are just afraid to make the encounter, It is very hard to make that change. My advice is just go for it make the move on him If it is not what he wants then he will let you know.
2006-09-25 10:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Barry G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are both stillin high school there is plenty of time....I do not think it wise for young people to tie themselves down with serious relationships when it has been proven they rarelt work out....It is good to have friends and maybe you and this young man are supposed to be together, but if you are, you will be, Patience is the First Teaching... good luck
2006-09-25 10:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he tries to get close just dont stay back come closer a step if u like him 3 years is a hella time u know him and u must know how he feels about u if u love him just don't stay back and put every thing on his shoulder
2006-09-25 10:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. tell him how you feel... exactly what you said here. the difference between hs and adult relationships is communication. aka - not playing games. he will never know how you feel about the situation until you tell him. you can't expect him to KNOW or figure it out... he's a guy!! LOL!
if it comes back to bite you in the a$$ at least you know and don't have to worry over it...
good luck!
2006-09-25 10:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun, take risks, and always move forward! Never regret anything, only learn and grow from it.
Go get what you want!
2006-09-25 10:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mindwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he`s not being up front with you .You sound like you really want him . He may not end up being all that you think he`s going to be.Just remember all things that look good are not all ways good for you.It`s really up to you.What do you really want?
2006-09-25 10:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's nothing wrong with just TALKING sweety..
if its been lik that for three years then keep it as it is!
but if u really like him just ask him out its not that hard..
just say if i asked u 2 go out with me wot would u say..
if u cant say it 2 his face.. do it through sms or email or a note or something
go for it!
and goOdluck
2006-09-25 10:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋