I am in high school and me and this guy have been TALKING for 3 years....we have never gotten to the dating part it has just stayed at talking...We have gotten past the i like u do u like me stuff....and we both like eachother.....And we both care 4 eachother ALOT...but yet we still are just friends....it's weird because when he wants to try 2 get with me i am supposodly "moved on" and when i am tryin 2 get with him.....it's like umm.....we have been off and on for a while now....any advice???
2006-09-25 02:23:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be physical and see how it turns out
2006-09-25 02:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something that has held you both back from each other. Regardless of who was first or who is holding back now, if you both like each other and are not hooking up with anyone else then you two are dating. Make sure you have safe sex if that is in your future and keep talking honestly to eachother. That is the only way you two will remain true to each other.
2006-09-25 09:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are going to have to sit down and tell him bluntly that you care about him more than and a friend and that you would like to start dating. Let him know that you are not trying to pressure him -- if he wants to think about it or just be friends that's OK -- you just want him to understand how you feel.
2006-09-25 09:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to get past cold feet & shock him.
You're obviously comfortable with him; how would he react to you suddenly grabbing certain parts of his anatomy? would you do something like that?
find something you would do that would excite him and go for it even if its just a hug in bed/on a sofa all night that's been enough to change a relationship for me
2006-09-25 09:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like bad timing between you. Why don't the two of you get together and talk this thing over??
2006-09-25 09:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him about it. Next time when he wants to be with you ask him about it. Who knows maybe you are better off as friends.
2006-09-25 09:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♥I~love~my~Fiance♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not you move on again?
2006-09-25 09:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by yuft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋