your marry some one because you love em right? and that you should know a lot about that person and marriage is SUPPOSE TO BE full of UNDERSTANDING????
2006-09-25 02:23:28 · 8 answers · asked by ayan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think its like driving. Even the best driver meet accident.
2006-09-25 02:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by intimate_mask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young. Suppose one of the spouses needs something from the other, something that most people take for granted on a daily basis. But the one with needs is not having his or her needs met? As a matter of fact, has been waiting for years and years for a change from her "significant other," but that change never came? Don't you think, that as a human being with certain needs, that person deserves a chance to have those needs met?
There are so many reasons for a marriage to break down, and there's only one way to find that out. Get married. and GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-25 02:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we often enter into that relationship blinded by love; believing it to remain forever as wonderful as it began. But then we begin to learn things about them that aren't as perfect as was the fantasy picture we'd painted for us about our future. And fantasy is always greater than reality.
Love is never lost. For we never stop loving another for the reasons we fell in love with them, but when the negatives we later learn, outweigh the positives, and the whole is more painful than enjoyable, even the "love" then seems to be a lie.
Another problem couples have is that they try to force each other into changing. But people are like pieces of string; you cannot usually push a piece of string in the direction you wish for it to go, but you can always lead it in that direction.
It is also sad to note how many relationships have ended over the building up of a myriad of the stupidest of little things, that had we realized would have ended the relationship, we would have viewed them from a far more loving perspective. But all too often our egos get in the way of that, believing we are right, we needn't change, and/or it is our right to be upset.
2006-09-25 02:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and before people marry they put a lot of thought into making sure it's the right person. But life changes and sometimes people change and grow apart. Some things can be fixed with a little work, patience, love and understanding. But some can't. :(
2006-09-25 02:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because single ppl cant divorce each other
2006-09-25 02:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u get older u'll understand
2006-09-25 02:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Julie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE CHANGE. LIFE ISN'T PERFECT. OH WELL **** HAPPENS
2006-09-25 02:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
respect him joint us not divrced
2006-09-25 02:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by sorena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋