He is on probation for domestic violence. I have a Personal Protection Order against him. He is also dealing with two court proceedings. One for violation of probation(misdeameanor) for continuing to contact me and the other for Aggravated stalking (felony).
2006-09-25 02:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by Worried 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The judge can do one of two things. One he can postpone the trial date and set a new date. (This is unlikely, with the circumstances you have presented.) Or the judge can hold the trial without him. Your ex will have a short timeframe to appeal the decisions but since he failed to appear will probably have no voice. Just relax and you will make it through this tough day. Good luck to you.
2006-09-25 02:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask away cuz whatever you want the judge will most likely give to you cuz he's not there to debate whether or not you deserve it...Since he's not coming get as much as the law allows in spousal support and child support...if he's hurt you then make sure that he cant see the kids until he goes thru some type of counseling...good luck
2006-09-25 02:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have filed for divorce, in most states it is not necessary for him to appear in court. As long as he has signed the papers it should be pretty smooth. If he contests the divorce, then it can be drawn out and much harder, but given what you have said, he is probably not going to fight it, just let it happen...Good luck and stay safe...
2006-09-25 02:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that funny my x husband did not go to court for our D after 6 years he decided that he want custody of the children so I can pay him child support (children that he spent months not visiting or even call for bithdays let alone buy a gift) during that proceding
he told the lawyer and the judge that he was not divorce from me
because he did not go to court
everyone start laughing
my point is even if he goes to court or not you divorce will go trow
2006-09-25 02:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS WILL CONTINUE WITH OR WITHOUT HIS PRESENCE....Do you have an attorney? If not I would get one. He is responsible for paying a portion of the fee's. It sounds like you are doing the right thing in leaving. He sounds like a very angry man and things were bound to get worse.
Good luck.
2006-09-25 02:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just dont understand that facing the firing squad can be easier then dealing with the after math.Sounds like your soon to be ex is dealign ratehr badly with this news of divorce, sorry to hear this and wish you the best of luck cuz he is gonna be sitting under the jail after a judge gets through with his carcass.
2006-09-25 02:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he doesn't show you get what you want but he has to have been served his papers. That is the trick here as long as he has been served with his court papers and he doesn't show you don't have anything to worry about . It would be the best thing for you. Good luck
2006-09-25 02:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR HUSBSND WILL LOSE . I did the same thing when my wife fied and I never came to court until they froze my bank account and now I have to make a deal with her lawyer and I lost a lot.
2006-09-25 02:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by ah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im am very very sorry certainly to hearken to that ur marriage did not paintings out, yet at circumstances like this all i will assert to you is study from the experience and what would not kill u can only make u better. i somewhat dont imagine he can do any courtroom case hostile to u, u did not do something to him, plus u are the female u suggested he said as u names and stuff!
2016-11-23 20:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure messed his life up lady....
2006-09-25 02:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋