Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

im just wondering if this is why i havent found someone. i do smoke cigs and i know it smells. but would u date a guy if he smoked. i mean if he was nice and really sweet and knew how to treat a lady.

btw i am a guy

2006-09-25 05:46:58 · 41 answers · asked by texasdaddy2009 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 05:46:50 · 31 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Weddings

i get can't her out of my mind. i always think of her. but she's with my friend now. i told her i loved her and kissed her knowing that my friend was coming. he broke up with her but that didn't last long until her friends told him what was really going on. i tried breaking them up. she came up to me and said," don't you want me to be happy." i want her to be happy but not with him.

2006-09-25 05:46:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend cheated on me while we're still together. And this is not the first time he did that.We just broke up recently and he told me he's sick of the quarrels we had. but I can't get over him just yet. He used to abuse me verbally but I still tried to tolerate it all. Part of me yearned for him to come back. Another part of me is dead and Im feeling so strained out by this whole thing. We have gone through this many times before. Break up followed by patching up within weeks. Im not sure he'll want to get back together again after I sent a mail(sort of hate mail) today telling him how I really felt. Someone please enlighten me. =(

2006-09-25 05:46:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-25 05:45:48 · 49 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok well for the last 3 months ive been seeing this boy. He has been telling me he liked me for like the last 2 months and ive been telling him i liked him for like the past month. Then last monday he asked me if id go out with him and of course i said yes. He would msg my phone all day while im in school and hes at work and even at nite while hes at work. He even new wen to msg me wen i had lunch and he would always ask me to come and hangout wit him and i always would. he would even let me drink with him sometimes. I was so happy and i thot he was happy with me to. Then all of a sudden las thursday he stopped talking to me he didn't msg my phone all day or nite so i msg him on friday nite i asked him why he didn't msg me at all and he told me he would rather just be friends bc of him working 2 jobs and he said he wouldnt have time for me but that never bothered him while we were just friends before we started going out. What would you think of the situation? Im 16 and hes 21. HELP

2006-09-25 05:45:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 05:44:52 · 34 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Weddings

I used to work full time at a repectable job and leave our two kids with my mother during the day. Now we have three and my mother says that's too much and I need to stay at home with my kids. I made the sacrifice of quitting my job. I now stay at home with all three kids 7 and under. I have just noticed that my husband disrespects me now, I honestly do not know why. Some people say this is the hardest job around. Some people would say go to work, put the kids in day care. Why should I cater to my husbands wants though. I now enjoy staying at home with my children and would not trade that for anything. But if I have an off day and complain about doing the laundry or dishes or anything else he says do it anyways that is your job. I never would have put up with this before but now its like, well I guess it is kind of my job. Who knows, is it my job? What would you say if your husband spoke to you that way?

2006-09-25 05:44:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well he makes me "come" the first time, however, his technique leaves my clit sore and when he goes to do it again it's more so painful then pleasurable...but I don't want to make it seem like he doesn't know what he's doing. How do I direct him to the right way of doing it where it will be pleasurable each and every time? You know....softer?

2006-09-25 05:44:09 · 22 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 05:43:11 · 47 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Weddings

getting married on feb 14, 2007 - I need to make a decision and get the time booked soon - please help

2006-09-25 05:41:53 · 7 answers · asked by leslieguelker0517 4 in Weddings

how many of u think that perserverance can win a gal's heart? there can only be 2 outcomes. one is she is touched by your sincerity. two is she thinks you are a perverted manic. which will it be?

2006-09-25 05:41:30 · 13 answers · asked by chua19485 1 in Singles & Dating

If so you will be caught and put in jail for a very longtime, everybody will know what kinda pervert you are as well.

2006-09-25 05:41:16 · 26 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Friends

2006-09-25 05:41:14 · 29 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just turned 23 and he is only 20!! I feel like I am robbing a cradle. Are any of you in similar situations? I dont really go for younger men!

2006-09-25 05:40:45 · 23 answers · asked by Ms.Trouble 3 in Singles & Dating

I have reached a crossroad in my life and I'm not sure which way to go.

My current career is ending next month and my lease is also up. I have little money in savings and family and friends who say I can live with them until I find a new job.

I have been in a long distance relationship with a man for over a year. He has asked me to move in with him, so I have been tailoring my job search to a 50 mile radius of his city. Basically, I have been living my life as though we are really going to be together.

The problem is, I'm not sure if this is the best choice now. He has an exwife and daughter who he sees regularly. He really enjoys attention and love, but doesn't always reciprocate. He expects me to sit at home now, while he is out with his 'family'. He isn't always available to me, but he expects me to answer the phone whenever he calls.

What do I do? Move home while unemployed, or stick to the plan of being with him?

2006-09-25 05:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by torn 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to go back to my home country but because the court and other people blame me they wont go, the child is living with me and he really love to go to our home country and i cand see he is getting upset and deprss so do I and I am worried if they carry on like that either they take away my son from me or I end up to hospital.

2006-09-25 05:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by khanom gol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I had to purchase a radiator for his 17 year old sister and his mother just looked at it and did not offer to pay. This radiator was almost $200 and we are not made of money. We've had to fix a couple of other things on her car as well because her mom doesn't help her out. My sister in law is 17 and she goes to high school and has a part time job but she has to pay her mom the tuition for her schooling (like $215 a month), plus she pays her insurance and her gas and has nothing left at the end of the month. Her car broke down and needed a new radiatior so we had to buy it because she has to go to and from school and work. My mother in law didn't offer to pay us abck or anything when she should have bought it in the first place. How do we talk to her about this because we need the money back. My mother in law babysits our son sometimes so we don't want to be rude to her plus we all have a pretty good relationship and don't wnat to ruin it.

2006-09-25 05:39:59 · 13 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2 in Family

Everyone seems to look for it, but how do you know when you've found it?

2006-09-25 05:39:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do guys like it better from the back or the front just wondering

2006-09-25 05:39:50 · 3 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so who is in favour of them? have they worked for you in the past ever? my friend is all for them and the freedom they entow, but i cant agree with her, but there must be some bad points too.

any opinions helpful, what do you all think?

2006-09-25 05:39:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a great relationship with a guy and I'm sure if all it is is a friendship. A lot of people have told me things he has said about me and he has never said that I was just a good friend or anything like that. I was just confused on pursuing it. We like the same stuff, music, shows, movies, we have the same family background. We even want to go down the same career path!

2006-09-25 05:38:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My godmother and her family won't be able to attend my wedding, b/c she has to mc at her cousin's wedding. Should I move my date to the following weekend? Her and her family have been there my enitre life and I wouldn't feel right without them there...but if I move the date for them, then someone else will want me to do that for them?!?! If I don't move the date, what should I do?

2006-09-25 05:38:47 · 18 answers · asked by Halley G 1 in Weddings

2006-09-25 05:36:39 · 27 answers · asked by LiL MaMa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it so bad to lose it? cause i kinda feel guilty and kinda not.. and it wasnt even with my boyfriend..it was to a good friend of mine..and it was spur of the moment..is that bad?

2006-09-25 05:36:36 · 26 answers · asked by Sarah K 1 in Singles & Dating

I was friends with this girl from college, and we got really close as friends. I called her early this past summer, and I told her my email address in passing. She never emailed, but after a wedding last weekend, we got to talking a lot about stuff. Pretty soon the group we were talking in fizzled, and we were down to just us. When we went to the reception, we talked a lot there too. She remembered my email address almost perfectly from memory in our phone conversation, and she made me promise to call her within the next week. How did she remember, and why does she want me to call? She never emailed me!

2006-09-25 05:36:31 · 7 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

I hope nobody is offended. This is just a joke.

A gay guy comes into a bar and sit next to a sraight guy. The straight guy say's "hey, How's it going". The gay guy say's "fine and yourself". The straight guy say's "I'm doing good". The gay guy say's "have you ever played beer football?" The straight guy say's "no, how do you play?" The gay guy say's " you take a beer and you slam it (drink it all in one drink),put it on the table and you get six points, then you pull down your pant's and let one rip and get one point". The straight guy say's "oh, that's easy, I'll play". The gay guy say's "I'll go first". He slams the beer and gets the six points, then pulls his paint down and lets one rip to get the extra point. The straight guy slams his beer and pulss his pants down and the gay guy runs up behind him and starts nailing him. The straight starts running and saying " what are you doing" the gay guy say "blocking the feild goal"

Please don't be offended anybody. If you have a probl

2006-09-25 05:36:17 · 10 answers · asked by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 in Singles & Dating

why do i feel that way?

2006-09-25 05:36:11 · 5 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

came home from high school (I'm a junior) early and heard them arguing in her room. Then I heard a thud, so I went running into her room. She was on the floor and I helped her up. This guy took a swing at me, but I pushed him away and chased him out the house. My sister told me not to tell our parents, and that she would work things out on her own. Later, she said that she was going to break up with him, so don't even think about telling mom and dad. Well, they're still going out and to top it all off this guy called me on my cell (my sister must have gave it to him) and threatened me not to say anything. I want to blow the whistle on the whole thing, cause I don't want my sister to get hurt. What should I do.

2006-09-25 05:36:05 · 16 answers · asked by David F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a guy that i like but my mom don't what do i do because he is perfect. he plays colleage football player and he is a crimal justace major i dont get whyshe don't like him we are only 2 years apart.. he treats me good and make me laugh and happy what more could she want but my dad like him and i think in love with him but mom don't see that...and i am 17 and he's 19 and a freshman in collage

2006-09-25 05:35:55 · 8 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating