Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

she wants me to watch and join but I'm scared it will hurt our marriage

2006-09-25 06:17:53 · 25 answers · asked by june71969 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26 female & my male counterpart is 42. I wonder could he be the man for me. Thy say when u search u shall find. I check his messages two other women were calling him. so he had his number changed. he send me money pay my bills and do much more with out us having sexual contact. I wonder should I walk away are stay? please help.

2006-09-25 06:17:46 · 20 answers · asked by natasha l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My b/f plays video games so much to the fact that I'm considering leaving him. At first he had no job so when I came home from work he would be playing video games all day--this made me mad. Now he working and since he cannot play video games during the day anymore, he wakes up early in the morning or sometimes in the middle of the night (3am, 4am, 5am) just to play his video games. Or he will wait until I'm busy doing something (taking shower, doing hair, washing dishes, cooking,sleeping) just to hop on his video games. He says if I don't want him playing video games, then I should find something for us to do. I told him I am not his damn entertainer, why can't he find ways to entertain himself or do something constructive with his free time? He also says that when if I'm busy doing something else like cooking, I shouldn't mind that he's playing the game but my issue is that everytime I turn around, he's on the damn video game! What would you guys do? Isn't he too old for this

2006-09-25 06:17:15 · 29 answers · asked by melcar12345 4 in Family

I have been talking to this guy who I have never seen before yet (and the way he is acting, never will either), for almost a year now and we used to get along great but only cause he likes to spend all his time on the phone with me. The problem with me though is that I have a five year old daughter that I have to tend to from time to time and he feels like that takes away from his time with me. I told him that it would be better if he would just come down here so that we can all see each other and get to know each other better. Later on in the phone relationship, he changed to this guy that I don't have time for, but i can't seem to quit talking to him though when he calls(finally). I am 4 years older than he is and he is acting as if I'm supposed to do everything that he says, like we are married or something, i wanna know how is it that he can feel this way when we have not even seen each other yet and he doesn't want to even try. What should I do about this?

2006-09-25 06:17:09 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a man to want a woman to....

send emails without returning them?
be available everytime he calls and then get mad if she's out?
sit at home while he goes out?
not question his motives or intentions?
not get mad if he spends time with an ex?

Are most men selfish, or are some just too controlling?

2006-09-25 06:17:05 · 15 answers · asked by torn 3 in Singles & Dating

ok im a frndly person and talk to anybody really and smile alot.i find it esier to get on with guys so most of my good frnds are male. y do i make any guy ive ever dated jelous? i mean what is the prob? do guys not realise that if a girl has u on her arm its u she wants to be with?

2006-09-25 06:16:12 · 11 answers · asked by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 06:15:08 · 41 answers · asked by O K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i used to do the whole internet dating thing.. but i couldn't be botherd anymore because people were totally different behind the computer than infront of your face. i am just on face to face meeting nowdays the internet is not how i want to people anymore (well i don't mind meeting friends on here.. but nothing more)..

but hmm what do you think?? do you think internet dating is a good idea and is praticle? and do you think you can fall in love over it? (the internet).. let me know what you think :)

2006-09-25 06:13:43 · 36 answers · asked by uniqu3ang3l 2 in Singles & Dating

Last week my sister and my nephew moved out!! i miss my nephew terribly and kept antagonizing my sister on how i wanted to watch him when i have a day off since i dont see him anymore...well, mondays are usually my cleaning days and i promised my boyfriend that i was going to go with him to the movies !!! so my sister brought my nephew over this moring and asked me if i could take care of him...and i told her i couldnt..now her and my mom are pissed off at me and i feel like an *** hole!!!! should i feel bad?

2006-09-25 06:13:40 · 29 answers · asked by nothing 2 in Family

2006-09-25 06:13:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he's not yet married...

2006-09-25 06:11:36 · 64 answers · asked by i crave yours 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 06:11:17 · 11 answers · asked by lalalala 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you talk to a guy at work who you find very very beautiful? I see this guy (usually only on the elevator) and I clam up. He makes me soooo shy. Ha... I think he's too handsome for me to be comfortable. WTF!?

2006-09-25 06:10:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 06:10:34 · 12 answers · asked by Leah M 1 in Family

what i did was i was at a red light in town and i got my crowbar out and hit his car infront of everyone...then the light turn green and i left he was following me everyone in there cars were light oh my god that girl is crazy .. let me good storys

2006-09-25 06:10:27 · 9 answers · asked by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Has anyone here had a split before... Even started dating other people and then gone to counseling and made it work? Gotten back together and stayed together?

2006-09-25 06:09:17 · 9 answers · asked by Chris T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This may not be the rite place to post this but im going to anyway. I watch a and e alot. I dont understand the world we live in. I dont undrstand way people who rape, kill, or abuse children (or adults) get less time for a person caught using drugs or selling drugs. (dont get me wrong i think there should be a price to pay for it) but rape, killing, and abusing is far worse that drugs. People that use drugs or sell drugs can be helped but people that kill or rape children can not. Why do they get less of a sentence or worse put back on the streets to do it again?

2006-09-25 06:09:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i give my fella an ultimatum?
i have a 4 week old baby and on saturday night my fiancee went out to celebrate his birthday with his mates, he didn't come home until 2.30pm on sunday, he didnt ring or ext to let me know he wasn't coming in and I laid awake worrying all night, he text me at 7am to say he was crashing at his mates, when he returned home his excuse was that his mate had been arrested for drink driving so he couldnt leave his house as he wouldnt have been able to get in, also he had used drugs which is something we always argue about, so he hadnt wanted to come in and upset me. I feel really upset as i'm not sure i trust him...was he with someone else etc? his story doesnt seem to all add up, i feel i shouldnt be sat in the house looking after his baby while he's staying out all night. can anyone tell me if i'm being unfair, or whether i'm just being a doormat....and either way what should I do?! sorry to rattle on but i'm so confuzzled. thankies so much. xXx

2006-09-25 06:07:53 · 41 answers · asked by fowlersofyork 2 in Singles & Dating

She said she is confused and she needs time to think about what is going on. She has a difficult time letting her ex boyfriend go and I found out that he was at her house recently. Is she letting me go or is she lettin him go...........Should I move on?

2006-09-25 06:07:39 · 20 answers · asked by Metzican 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 06:07:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

appropriate for guys to wear it?

2006-09-25 06:07:23 · 10 answers · asked by mark s 1 in Friends

she was curious about being with a girl but she was complaning cause she said her boyfriend has a problem with my age he think i'm too young and that now we cant meet but like 3 weeks later he emailed me to see if i still want to meet her but he set up plan for her to see if she will be interested in me without her knowing that i was the girl online but me and the girl never met yet but me and him has she dont know about us he was it to be a sursprise but if the guy want to meet up with you to talk with out her for the secong time what do you think especially if he lictk me.. you no what i mean i think he is a nice guy in i'm liking him kind of but it feels kind of good cause she dont no and he dont want her to no but he told me whem he want us to meet together dont let her no we already no each other he ask can he see my body i was thinking something else when he did that what you think i'm confused here..help me

2006-09-25 06:07:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 06:07:06 · 20 answers · asked by sur1282 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 22 and in college in Central Texas. Where can I find girls to date and how do I ask them out and tell if they are interested?

2006-09-25 06:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by TexasCowboy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 06:06:59 · 10 answers · asked by naudica w 1 in Friends

their pants do you find it impossible not to stare and also an instant erection? also, what do you find more difficult to not stare at this situation with a girl bending over and her thong sticking out the back or a thin girl with big boobs and a tight shirt on?

2006-09-25 06:05:51 · 18 answers · asked by mark s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 06:05:38 · 17 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why men trip if you try to talk to them about you sex relationship?
When you enter in to a relatioship the first thing that people alway agree on is to keep the communcation open. Agree!!!!
But as soon as you tell a man that the sex is getting boring they go crazy. They say things like you must be looking at someone else or having sex with someone else. How are you suppose to spice up a relationship if only one person is open minded. Help is need.
I really care for the person but the sex sucks! What can I do?

2006-09-25 06:05:24 · 5 answers · asked by funoburgmom 3 in Singles & Dating

with short skirts, Sometimes after lunch she has no panties on and spreads her legs sitting in the chairn and turns the chair toward me , I sit at the desk next to her.
Sometimes she Just bend over right in front of me with her large breasts inches from my face.
What do you think this means.

2006-09-25 06:04:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am having a very small wedding and reception in May 2007. Is it ok to have platters already done up for a reception that you can get a your local super market?

2006-09-25 06:04:09 · 20 answers · asked by fhockey1 2 in Weddings