I am 26 female & my male counterpart is 42. I wonder could he be the man for me. Thy say when u search u shall find. I check his messages two other women were calling him. so he had his number changed. he send me money pay my bills and do much more with out us having sexual contact. I wonder should I walk away are stay? please help.
2006-09-25 06:17:46 · 20 answers · asked by natasha l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ALWAYS.. if you are asking a question... listen to the question. If you are wondering if you should walk.. ALWAYS walk....
This guy is setting you up for his mistress. Now .. if thats someting you want.. then cool.. but don't expect him to leave his current lover (and he does have one).
2006-09-25 06:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This man obviously cares about you. Sometimes it takes an older man to give a woman what she needs.But, don't stay with him just because he is paying your bills then dump him later. You must think of his feelings too. Sit down, tell him how you feel about him, listen to him and find out up front if this will be long term or just a "for right now thing". From what you have said, you will probably be happy with the results.
2006-09-25 13:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by beth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 27, my husband is 49, We've been together for 3 and a half years and married for 2 and a half years. We are so in tuned to each other and marriage life is great. Age is only a number, I feel like me and my husband were meant for each other so age difference doesn't mean anything as long as you both love each other.
2006-09-25 13:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter if the it is true love. Two people has to love each other! It sounds like you have some doubts about this man. Think with your head and not just with your heart. Good luck and God bless.
2006-09-25 13:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by cherokee_ceil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He apparently isn't interested in you for your brain power, your grammar sucks. I'm only assuming he's after some T & A. I have a neighbor (male) who is 44. He is constantly dating women 21 to 25 who are immature and/or "slow" He loves them and leaves them. He flowers them with gifts until they sleep with him, then dumps them when something newer, or younger comes around. He is a notorious playboy, who has never been married. He dangles his "meat" at a few just as backups when pickings are slim. I bet this guy is doing the same thing to you.
2006-09-25 13:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is 10 years difference between my husband and me, we met when I was 19, and have been together for 14 years(married 10)
follow your heart.
2006-09-25 13:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by rimples25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you found the right man. My wife is 16 years younger than me and my story is similar. We are happily married 3 years now.
2006-09-25 13:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not agonize about differences, and are very happy with eachother, feel blessed. At least he appears to be a gentleman..... People come into our lives for many many reasons.
Oh yeah! 'Age is a matter of feelings, not years' !!
2006-09-25 13:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how long you have known him. Please give your relationship one year to see if you two really get along well.
If you have to ask, then just the questioning makes me wonder if he's right for you.
Do you love him?
If you love him and have known each other a year, then age makes no difference. If he really loves you, he will be willing to wait that year for you.
Good luck to you and to him.
2006-09-25 13:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is playing head games it is time to get out!You should not have invaded his privacy,though! how would you feel if he did that to you! Usually men this age are somewhat mature and stable. He may be a little old for you!
2006-09-25 13:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋