She said she is confused and she needs time to think about what is going on. She has a difficult time letting her ex boyfriend go and I found out that he was at her house recently. Is she letting me go or is she lettin him go...........Should I move on?
2006-09-25 06:07:39 · 20 answers · asked by Metzican 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you are crowding her..everyone needs time alone.If you and another guy is hanging on to her maybe she needs time to THINK.She,s confused because she don,t have time to think about what she wants to do.back off and give her space man...Her decision want be influenced if you just keep hanging on....the girl is asking for space(GIVE IT TO HER) and you just might come out the winner
2006-09-25 06:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means just what she says - she's confused. She care about you but she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend. She feels that maybe having some time alone will help her sort out these feelings and figure out what to do.
This of course doesn't make you feel any better, but the question about moving on is one that only YOU can answer. Do you want to wait for her to make up her mind? How do YOU feel about the fact that she still has feelings for her ex? Can you deal with that in a relationship and are you willing to hang in there and work through that? Or, do you need to be with someone who is clear about their feelings, has already sorted out "old ties" and isn't bringing that baggage to a new relationship?
Those are the questions you need to ask yourself.
2006-09-25 13:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means this ex is giving it to her the way she likes it and it is hard for her to let that go. She knows you are the one she should be with(the safe guy) ,but the ex it soooooo tempting. Move on b/c she dosen't value you enough to make this thing exclusive. If you play second fiddle now and wait around for her to "make up her mind" she is going to yoyo you through the entire relationship..it's all part of the game:-)
2006-09-25 13:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by onedzire27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what teenage girls say when they want to break up. Move on!! You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you. Don't allow yourself to be used as a back-up. It sounds like she is holding out for her ex, but will take you if that doesn't work. Make it clear to her that you aren't into playing games. Break it off with her completely!! She will respect you for that more than she will if you just hang out and wait for her to make a decision. Good Luck!
2006-09-25 13:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space to source things out in a reasonable time frame.you got her on the re-bound sometime it's hard to let go of an old love but if she truly love you she will make the right decision.
2006-09-25 13:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Does she want to be alone for a day or two or for a while? If says: I dont know, I am not sure, I cant tell, and keeps giving you shallow, undetailed answers, I would say: MOVE ON!
2006-09-25 13:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Flavor Flav would say, "Your time is up". Don't let it rock your world. There are more girls out there. Watch what happens when she realizes that you've moved on!
2006-09-25 13:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by willno74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space and let he figure out what she wants. Tell her how you feel, be honest, but give her the time to decide what she wants.
2006-09-25 13:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't want to hurt you. Move on and be happy.
Never wait for another person to decide what they are going to do with the rest of your life.
2006-09-25 13:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means just that. She wants some time to think things over.
2006-09-25 13:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋