Has anyone here had a split before... Even started dating other people and then gone to counseling and made it work? Gotten back together and stayed together?
2006-09-25 06:09:17 · 9 answers · asked by Chris T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes.it happens.but you have to ask yourself if this is what you really want.we live in a world where unforgiving people can find very cruel and entirely legal ways to get revenge for things that they were never able to forgive.if you do this you leave yourself open and very vulnerable to anything this type of person would set you up for just to see you fall.just take a very close look at this person and remember,things arent always what they seem to be.just be careful my friend
2006-09-25 06:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by stonedhilbily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with one of the readers. I went to counseling but it was then when I realized how poorly he has treated me and that he was not woth a second chance. I saw the light during counseling, I realized that I was much better wthout him and that I deserve much better than that loser.
I filed for divorce shortly after going to couseling for 3 months and it has been the best decision that I have ever made.
So, yes! couseling works because it gives you the skills to see what wrong in your relationship and how much work it would take to patch things up, I learned a lot from counselling and even today I apply that knowledge into my daily life.
If the relationship is worth saving, two people have to work on it. I say, give it a chance if you both are commited into making things work. In my case, I just had enough of his cheating and refuse to live the rest of my life unhappy. Now I am free and happy thanks to counseling!
2006-09-25 13:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know of one or two, but generally by the time a couple needs counseling, it's been over for years.
2006-09-25 13:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try counseling, but I have to tell you I never knew anyone who got back together after going.
2006-09-25 13:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. We stunk before we divorced, but in counseling found out we really couldn't stand each other. Sorry. Doesn't mean it won't work out for you though. Depends on you two.
2006-09-25 13:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap! It happens and will if you both want it to work, it's all about what you put into it, how well you communicate have an open mind, honesty and understanding you have to let the past be the past and work only for the future.
2006-09-25 13:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not me personally..but I have known people who have.
2006-09-25 13:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me. I dont see or speak to my ex wife at all.
2006-09-25 13:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by soar_2307 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just pray on it.
2006-09-25 13:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Love Child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋