ok im a frndly person and talk to anybody really and smile alot.i find it esier to get on with guys so most of my good frnds are male. y do i make any guy ive ever dated jelous? i mean what is the prob? do guys not realise that if a girl has u on her arm its u she wants to be with?
2006-09-25 06:16:12 · 11 answers · asked by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
flirting harmlessly is not a crime!!!
2006-09-25 06:19:07 · update #1
ok well should i stop talking to all my frnds cuz im taken then? 99.9% of them r guys
2006-09-25 06:20:59 · update #2
this is guys only remember cuz i want honest awnsers frm a male perspective. girls dnt relly like me so they tend to be a bit snotty
2006-09-25 06:29:37 · update #3
Shows the lack of strength by the person whose arm you're holding. Maybe he is jealous of a strong woman and cannot compete with your wit and smile?? Stay the same and always be yourself!!
2006-09-25 06:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by gary t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friendships in a committed relationship.
First some defintions:
committed - adj
1: bound or obligated, as under a pledge to a particular cause, action, or attitude
2: associated in an exclusive sexual relationship [syn: attached]
relationship - noun
1.a connection, association, or involvement.
2.connection between persons by blood or marriage.
3.an emotional or other connection between people: the relationship between teachers and students.
4.a sexual involvement; affair.
friendship – noun
1.the state of being a friend; association as friends: to value a person's friendship.
2.a friendly relation or intimacy.
3.friendly feeling or disposition.
When someone is in a "committed relationship", they should no longer persue active friendships with the opposite sex. Why? because the only reason that men persue a "friendship" with a woman is 1) because she is attractive and 2) because they want to have sex with them. Women, if you don't believe me try this. Ask one of your male "friends" out to dinner and over dinner ask them if they find you attractive - after they say yes, ask them if they would like to sleep with you (a no strings attached thing as you still want to keep them as a friend).
the reason he is jelous is that he understands the above and you don't. he knows why those other guys are talking to you. now.. its time YOU understand that as well.
2006-09-25 13:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him from the start that I have guy friends I hang out with and if thats a problem; if yes, "then we're gonna have a Problem"!
But, Its not good because, i would be afaird you would go behind my back, one night you're drink, dance at the club, and you're feeling nice, and the only guy is your friend whom you like.......
Happens all the time.....
2006-09-25 13:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We're paranoid. Don't worry, you're not doing anything wrong, and it's fine to have guy friends. Just tell the guy you're with that if he can't accept you having friends who are guys, you can't see him anymore.
2006-09-25 13:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
B/c contrary to popular belief many guys are insecure. And I personally want to be my girlfriend's only friend with a penis.
2006-09-25 13:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by russ77478 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys are a jealous creature, if you show intrest in others hes gonna get pissed at first anyway,as time goes on it will receed but never disapeear
2006-09-25 13:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is you that does not understand.
Why would a girl continue to flirt if you are on someones arm?
Flirting means 'I am available, or could be soon'
That is all it is.
2006-09-25 13:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are flirtacious. Focus on the one you are with. Make sure he knows it.
2006-09-25 13:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its just a principle. if u have a boyfriend, then u dont need attention from other guys...
he might trust you, but not trust other guys...
2006-09-25 13:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by Soul-Unleashed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its that they dont want people looking at you as in other guys
2006-09-25 13:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by dely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋