why do i think marriage might suffocate our relationship?

Question

why do i feel that way?

Answer 1

Well, if you already are married because I responded your other question, I think that is late now to think about that. But, listen, marriage is that you are going to be with the person that you elected for long time, with luck, all your life. So, what is important is communication, you and him are going to continue growing so maybe what you like today you will dislike tomorrow, try to do something different every week or every month o every year, depends, and that means that you (both) need to keep that relationship going without getting into routine. That in the end, is all that. But you can make the difference.

If you are almost getting married and you have some doubts, is normal, after all you are making a huge step in your life. But you can call him and ask him, maybe he can support you and give you the strength that you need.

Good luck!!!

Answer 2

My guess is it has something to do with your parent's marriage. Marriage doesn't have to be suffocating for the woman or the man. It is however a lot of hard work from both parties. Long term relationships require the same amount of work but when things get sticky it is easier to leave.

Answer 3

Marriage is a commitment that is made between 2 people. If the "idea" of marriage makes you feel suffocated, you are definately not ready for it or in the wrong relationship.

Answer 4

Marriage isn't capable of suffocating.

Answer 5

bec. marriage is a different level relationship. it is somewhat more complicated esp. if your not ready & more scared enough that it will turn out a disaster. you should get to know well the person you'll marry, ask God's sign if he's the one...goodluck...