Family & Relationships - 25 September 2006

I saw a mom and her rather overweight 11 or 12 year old son entering the grocery store last evening. He appeared to be otherwise able. Dad had parked the car by the curb. The Mom tied the boys shoes and then they both went to the bakery and were loading up on donuts. Can someone tell me why?

2006-09-25 05:22:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been seeing a married man for a long time and really want him for myself. I know that sounds terrible but I can't seem to find a single guy who will take time to date or do anything. He has been married for many years, children all grown and gone. He is a great husband and I would love to have him for myself. The single men I am meeting just don't turn me on (they don't fit into my image of an attractive man as far as looks, dress, job, interests, sophistication, etc) as much as he does. He is my only man in many many years and I want him for myself. I've losing it aren't I?

2006-09-25 05:22:01 · 25 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

When the man i am in love with is telling me he loves me but, just doesnt' know what to do with it all...after one year. I am divorced with children...he loves me, them...yet ...he doesnt' know what to do with it all ...how or if to move forward. We all know what we know...isn't what we dont' know ironically "the answer for him" ..I don't know..means no..he just cant accept that and doesnt want to let go yet...knows inside this is not right. What do you think?

2006-09-25 05:21:39 · 31 answers · asked by givemeprivacy 1 in Singles & Dating

For some reason the sistem is rejecting all the emails I have been sending you,I miss you baby soo much,I hope you can get this.

2006-09-25 05:21:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I don't know if I've ever exactly envisioned his head spontaneously bursting into flames (until now), but you get the general idea. . .

My boyfriend of four years broke up with me a few months ago. He went about it pretty badly--breaking up via text message, lying, leaving me for a nineteen year old. . .so, as you can imagine, for a while, I was pretty enraged and heartbroken.

Now, I'm not so heartbroken, but I still very nearly hate him, and I want that to go away, because I don't like the feeling of disliking someone so much that I don't care if they live or die. It doesn't make me feel particularly warm and tingly inside, so does anyone have any tips for getting over not the heartbreak, but the hate? I just want to leave it all behind me and be able to be civil to him if I run into him, instead of reaching for the mace in my purse.:)

2006-09-25 05:21:05 · 19 answers · asked by Casey 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 05:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after we had our first child, my wife has done a 180 about many of the topics that are important to me. Also, she is rude, disrespectful, and overall a big snot to me. She is constantly demanding things of me without pleases or thanks. I have to beg for affection and respect. Our child is currently 16 months old and I am wondering when would be the best age for him to experience a divorce of his parents. I know there is no good age, I just need something to look forward to at this point.

2006-09-25 05:20:39 · 19 answers · asked by howedoit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so here' s the story. My Ex broke up with me over a year ago because he said i could do better than him since he had to move back home to Jersey. Well I still talk to him and everything but i've decided to move on. I've been dating again and this weekend i went camping with a new guy I've been seeing. My ex called me when i got home and i could just here it in his voice he wasn't happy i was dating anyone, he even got a little nasty about it. Is it wrong for me to feel a little pleased that he is ticked?

2006-09-25 05:19:51 · 13 answers · asked by Beeper 4 in Singles & Dating

A little boy came down for breakfast one morning and asked his grandma,'where's Mom and dad?' and she replied, 'they're up in bed ' so the little boy started to giggle and ate his breakfast and went out to play.
Then he came back in for lunch and asked his grandma 'where's Mom and dad?' and she replied 'they're still up in bed ' and the little boy started to giggle and he ate his lunch and went out to play.
Then the little boy came in for dinner and once again he asked his grandma 'where's Mom and dad?' and his grandmother replied 'they're still up in bed' and the little boy started to laugh and his grandmother asked 'what's wrong? every time I tell you they're still up in bed you start to laugh! what is going on here? The little boy replied, 'well last night daddy came into my bedroom and asked me for the Vaseline and I gave him super glue instead.'

2006-09-25 05:19:48 · 20 answers · asked by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been going out for 6 mths on and off. I just dont feel the chemistry anymore, and he pisses me off to often. Like he stubborn, self- centered and I am fed up. He think his views are the only ones that mattter. All he ever wants to do when we go somewhere alone is make-out and go down my shirt.
The only thing is I am not sure if breaking up will solve the problem. He's like my best friend and if I say goodbye to him, I dont know if it will still be the same. Will it still be the same? Please just give me some advice or suggestions, keep in mind he likes to argue about anything and I dont want to argue about anything I just want to say I am fed up.

PS: WE havent talked for like 4 days since, I locked him out of my house. He e-mailed me saying "we need to talk... about something". My best friend told him "She's ready to break up with you" and he said "I dont care" plainly he never cares because he is such a "man". (**** that)

2006-09-25 05:19:40 · 11 answers · asked by pinklacedshoes 2 in Friends

my daughter went to her dad's for the summer straight a student , pageant queen, cheerleader.. now thats she's home she things she is some big bully, always wants to fight people. acts like a want to be thug. quit cheerleading and don't care about grades.or people's feelings

2006-09-25 05:19:38 · 12 answers · asked by cottoncandie1969 2 in Family

I fell in love with my best guy friend. I couldn't take it anymore, so I told him and when I realized I wasn't going to get the same response from him, I also said I think it would be best for me if we weren't friends anymore. I didn't say it to hurt him, it's just easier for me to get over someone if I don't have contact with them, and he knows this. I didn't hear from him for a few days. Then he calls me, saying I'm "running away" and "throwing away our friendship" and says I need to rethink this. I think it's best I don't have him in my life anymore, but I do really miss him. Should I push my feelings for him aside, just stay in contact, have a distant friendship with him and see what happens? Or let it be and let him come to me if one day (when he's out of this party stage he's in) he realizes he does care for me and the time is right?

2006-09-25 05:18:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 05:17:22 · 14 answers · asked by stephen a 1 in Family

The guy that I've been seeing for over a year has just recently moved back home to be with his family. We had a great relationship, but never really had that serious talk. Although, on 2 occasions, he asked me where I bought my rings from, would that be leading up to something that might come? I think he might have thought that I was a superficial person, like money impressed me, by the things I wear, or the car I drive. The day that he left, he told me that I dressed nice & took good care of myself, & I told him that's just because I like fashion. He asked me if my parents had alot of money I guess just to see what my family's like, & how important money is to them. But I told them they aren't flashy by any means, but that they are down to earth. He then told me his parents don't make much & have never even been on an airplane before, I said, well as long as their happy it shouldn't matter. I think the underlying issue here is money, and I believe he moved away also to get himself financially stable since he's living back w/his parents (he's 32). And get this the day he left, I had just come from work & of all things I was wearing my chanel shoes (the only pair I have but they are nice for work) so go figure, but I really want to show him or tell him that money doesn't mean a thing to me as long as I have him. Will he believe me? If he set out to move back in with his parents, he obviously wants to start saving money. He said he still wants to keep in touch, & if I ever need someone to talk to that I can call him. If he really does love me & see's a future with me, did he do the right thing by moving away to get financially responsible? I just hope I didn't run him away because all along he thought I was superficial, I didn't think it bothered him though! But it might have, so I'm wondering if only time will tell for a potential future w/him?

2006-09-25 05:16:59 · 17 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is a phone repairman, (Major company technician). He is constantly cheating on his wife. When I laid into him the other day about being faithful to his wife, he said that every telephone guy he knows gets nooky on the side. Anyone else know this to be true?

2006-09-25 05:16:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

www.willowtreelane.com? I came across this website and they have the best prices, but i would prefer to use someone who has been recommended. If you have any other invitation website suggestions- that would be helpful too! thanks!

2006-09-25 05:16:30 · 5 answers · asked by glorymomof3 6 in Weddings

How would you trick the 1985 people with your knowledge of the future?

2006-09-25 05:16:26 · 9 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Singles & Dating

my bf got put in jail on saturday he got i DWI and it's his 4 in 3 months. when he goes to court will he more than likey go to jail? im just wondering so ur honest answers will help thanks

2006-09-25 05:16:23 · 16 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-25 05:16:08 · 7 answers · asked by alameen99 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesturday i went and told him that now our friendship was over, but he wouldnt take the answer. He locked me in his house so i would listen to him. I was scared i ran to his friend who was at the house but all he could say was that hey he loves u..I felt trapt and i just sat there and listen.He mind manipulated me again and then he finally left me when i let him back in my life..My boyfriend wants to beat him up tommorow but i feel guilty. despite all the bad things my ex made me go through. I feel as if i still need him in my life.Should i let my boyfriend confront my ex?

2006-09-25 05:15:15 · 6 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother-in-law is your typical chauvinistic male who uses women for sex and shelter. In the last 7 years I have watched him meet a woman, move in with her, become a control freak, and then cheat on them 3 or 4 times. Every time he does this same pattern he always makes some grand gesture to proove to his family that the newest relationship is "the one" and expects all of us to run to him and pat him on the back. This week he has once again planned a gathering with his newest conquest to look for the pat on the back once again. My question is 1. Do I go to the gathering and look at the new women and tell her to where armor (he likes to hit women during the control phase) and not unpack boxes cause he will cheat on her within 2 months? or 2. Do I just take a stand and not go to glorify his latest attempt to proove how wonderful he is to himself? Either way I am not going to be well liked by my wife's parents but am trying to decide which way would get my point across better.

2006-09-25 05:14:35 · 18 answers · asked by jvano35 2 in Family

My Ex would sneak through my window every night for 8 months but we never did anything it would take him 45mins to get to my house we'd just go to sleep until it was time to get up but we never did anything more than kiss oh ya hes wasnt a virgin i was and he never tried i always though it was because i wasnt good enough well i still do think that what do you think?

2006-09-25 05:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Singles & Dating

i hate joke threads! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
most of the time they aren't funny anyways

2006-09-25 05:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

but it should be indian.

2006-09-25 05:13:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a guy that i like but my mum and dad don't what do i do because he is perfect he plays colledge football he is a crimal justace mayjor i dont get why they don't like him we are only 2 years apart.. he treats me good and make me laugh and happy what more could she want but my dad like him

2006-09-25 05:12:15 · 16 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-25 05:11:01 · 31 answers · asked by Tangula G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and i dont know what to do i want to have a slammin party and i want it to be big but i dont think it will be any fun if i dont have a boyfriend there with me !?!?!?!?!? HELP???????????????

2006-09-25 05:10:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A woman in a coma was receiving a sponge bath from the nurses. While washing the lady's private area, they both noticed that the heart monitor and brain monitor jumped. To make sure it wasn't a coincidence they tried again and both machines jumped again. Quickly one nurse ran out to the lady’s husband and said "Sir, I know this sounds unorthodox, but we believe that some oral sex will help you wife to come out of the coma"
"Really?" replied the perplexed husband
"Yes, and don't worry we will give you your privacy, follow me"
The nurse led the man to his wife’s bed, and closed the door behind her when she left. A few minutes later the emergency button flashed that the lady's monitor had flat lined. She ran into the room where the woman lay dead.
"What happened??!!" Screamed the nurse hysterically
The husband replied nonchalantly "I think she choked

2006-09-25 05:10:36 · 12 answers · asked by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 and he's about 35. I know that sounds like a big difference, but he's just soooooo tall, dark and handsome. He has these gorgeous eyes with long dark lashes that I just love to stare at while he's working on my teeth. I just love it when he sits so close to me and I can smell his cologne and see his chest from the top of his shirt as he's bent down. I feel like Marcia from Brady Bunch...LOL!!! One time he was spraying water in my mouth and it was splashing everywhere and he wiped the water off my neck and said, "We're giving you a free shower today." OMG, the things that went through my head when he said that!!! Too bad the guy has a wife!!! Damn it!!! Think I should still make a move? Haha...JK!

2006-09-25 05:10:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive just ended a 7 year year relationship with my ex,but ive met sombody else,the thing is normally i would be all loved up but it feels that my heart just isnt in it.Do i go ahead with it just to make old feelings fade or do i wait untill my heart has healed?

2006-09-25 05:09:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce