Ive just ended a 7 year year relationship with my ex,but ive met sombody else,the thing is normally i would be all loved up but it feels that my heart just isnt in it.Do i go ahead with it just to make old feelings fade or do i wait untill my heart has healed?
2006-09-25 05:09:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep your right i would be just going through the motions,i think i will leave it,more so because i think i still have felings for my ex.
2006-09-25 05:30:24 · update #1
just take your time, the heart is a tricky thing
2006-09-25 05:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you still have feelings for your x, then you do. Theres no question that you arent over this yet, and you arent ready for another relationship. What you really have to think about is why you ended it with your x in the first place. Work on this instead of worrying if you are over him, and you will get over him allot quicker. Xs are usually Xs for good reason, but it's hard to let go of something we have relied on for so long. Try to think of the positive side of independance, and I don't just mean being able to date. There is more to life than men, but once we find life, men can certainly be the icing on the cake. But don't think you have to be with one man or another. The right man will still be out there waiting when you are truly ready.
2006-09-25 10:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think your ex give's a toss about your feeling's your wrong he's moved on love and your water under the bridge ok.he will only hurt you more just get a grip of your life and move on and try to find happyness.or is it reather you would be alone then unhappy.then think and move on forget the feelings for your ex he's in the past forgot all the hurt and bitterness in the 1st place that you got a ex in front of him,come on love be strong and move on,forgive and forget once you have found love once more,he's been with load's of other's while your out of his life he's not crying over you gone ok,all he's doing maybe is slagging you off to his new gf.so get a life and move on.
your heart will never heal if you don't let someone come into your life and have a chance to share love with you,only love heal's.
2006-09-28 11:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by mariolla oneill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need some time. Seven years is a long time to be with someone and then to find yourself single again. I would wait until your heart has healed. If your heart isn't in it, I feel you aren't ready for another relationship right now.
2006-09-25 05:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the round. It mewqns sort of a very needy situation. Even if you say you're not into it, what you need to to heal the loss of the other relationship which ended.
Rebuilding When YOur relationship Ends is a wonderful book/tape series. By B. fisher.
2006-09-25 05:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until your heart has healed. There is no rush. It's not fair to the other person as well. So, wait until you know for sure that your heart can be in it. Good luck.
2006-09-25 05:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, id wait until your heart has healed, if you continue in this relationship then you will prolong your heartache and also may end up hurting the girl. relationships on the re-bound are always a bad idea, you need space and time to heal first.
2006-09-25 05:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by cheeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready to go forth.If you do it will turn out to be a disaster I know firsthand.Try some hobbies to take your mind off your ex.It might take months or even a yr or more for your memories to fade.I think if you keep yourself busy busy busy it will help you.Goodluck
2006-09-25 05:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Gin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till your hearts healed then when your ready and you think this new person could be good 4u then go 4 it,but dont expect them 2wait forever cus people move on and they could find some1 else! good luck though and take care x
2006-09-25 05:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you have healed. If it is meant to be, you will both be ready at the same time.
2006-09-25 05:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing that says you have to fall in love with everyone you meet... If you've met someone else, go out and try to cultivate a friend...
2006-09-25 05:12:23 · answer #11 · answered by Andy FF1,2,CrTr,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋