i have a guy that i like but my mum and dad don't what do i do because he is perfect he plays colledge football he is a crimal justace mayjor i dont get why they don't like him we are only 2 years apart.. he treats me good and make me laugh and happy what more could she want but my dad like him
2006-09-25 05:12:15 · 16 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
spelling suck sorry typed fast and my mom is mum
2006-09-25 05:19:37 · update #1
i thionk i'm in love but mom don't see that
2006-09-25 05:28:43 · update #2
i'm 17 and he's 19 and a freshman in collage
2006-09-25 05:30:58 · update #3
Take it slow, don't push it, and as she sees what a good guy he is, she'll start to trust him! Us Mummies want our girls to be looked after! It might not hurt to leave the pair of them alone for a while, when he turns up to pick you up, take another 10 mins to get ready and have him be on his best, most charming behaviour!
2006-09-25 05:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Emz77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to have a sit down talk with them together. not an argument, but simply ask them why they feel this way. and calmly explain to them that u value their opinion but it's ur life and u need to make ur own decisions. that u hope that they will respect ur choices even tho they disagree. showing maturity to talk to them calmly and openly might show them that u are ready for a relationship. no parent likes their daughter dating any1 that isn't 100% perfect. they are just trying to protect u b/c they love u.
2006-09-25 12:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by clueless_idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he sounds great but ask mom why she doesn't like him. Surely there's a reason (whether it makes sense or not). Talk to dad too. Remember, if you don't respect them they won't respect you either. Show them you're mature enough to deal with it if u can't date him and you'll get farther. Good luck! ;)
2006-09-25 12:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatelovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? i presume hes 17, youre 15---maybe. theyre only thinking of you. they dont want you to get hurt, or taken advantage of. prehaps they want you to stay at school and learn a thing or two, like how to write properly. and get a good well paid job. who knows,
im a dad of 3 girls, 26 16 & 11... and from my point of view its a nightmare... johnny lowlife just wants one thing... and i want to protect my baby... compromise is never easy...
2006-09-25 12:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom will get over it later it just hard 4 a mom to see her little daughter grow up. just give it time
2006-09-25 12:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jorgio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't disrespect your mum, give it a week and then ask your dad how to get round your mum
2006-09-25 12:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you parents to tell you what it is they don't like about him. Maybe they see something that you don't. If you are an adult, you can make up your own mind about whom you like.
2006-09-25 12:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if they can actually meet.have him pour on the charm.tell him to go alone or invite your mom out to lunch.
2006-09-25 12:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by willis_is_40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny sounds like a parants dream come true !
2006-09-25 12:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them or show them how happy he makes you
2006-09-25 12:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by summer d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋