My Ex would sneak through my window every night for 8 months but we never did anything it would take him 45mins to get to my house we'd just go to sleep until it was time to get up but we never did anything more than kiss oh ya hes wasnt a virgin i was and he never tried i always though it was because i wasnt good enough well i still do think that what do you think?
2006-09-25 05:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm. I doubt it was because you weren't "good enough". If a guy drives 45 minutes to sleep over and keeps his hands to himself, I would assume it was because you WERE good and he respected you for it. Why he is your ex, I don't know, but the "not good enough" theory isn't holding water. I don't you your ages or any other info other than what you wrote, but from what you say, I don't see any signs of it being a problem he had with you. Why do you think he didn't think you were good enough? Either way, I hope you are not heart broken and hope you find love and laughs in your very near future.
2006-09-25 05:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is so sweet. Girl this means that he respects you and the way you feel. You should keep him because men like that dont come around often. But if you think you are ready to have sex tell him.
2006-09-25 12:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eunuch
2006-09-25 12:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your so lucky. His the type that isn't going to pressure you. If it's something you want to do and you think your old enough then talk to him about it.
2006-09-25 12:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be of been waiting till you were ready, or he had no where to sleep and your place was conveniant
2006-09-25 12:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it was because you werent good enough. i think it was because he was being respectful and thinkin that if you waited that long then maybe your not ready. its either that or he was getting it somewhere else.
2006-09-25 12:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by cocalot6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally sweet!!! Maybe it's a respect thing..or maybe he's not interesting in females sexually....?!
2006-09-25 12:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Davis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not trying to hit it, something's wrong.
2006-09-25 12:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your bf was gay.
2006-09-25 12:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he must be gay
or mad!!!!
2006-09-25 12:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Tony S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋