We've been going out for 6 mths on and off. I just dont feel the chemistry anymore, and he pisses me off to often. Like he stubborn, self- centered and I am fed up. He think his views are the only ones that mattter. All he ever wants to do when we go somewhere alone is make-out and go down my shirt.
The only thing is I am not sure if breaking up will solve the problem. He's like my best friend and if I say goodbye to him, I dont know if it will still be the same. Will it still be the same? Please just give me some advice or suggestions, keep in mind he likes to argue about anything and I dont want to argue about anything I just want to say I am fed up.
PS: WE havent talked for like 4 days since, I locked him out of my house. He e-mailed me saying "we need to talk... about something". My best friend told him "She's ready to break up with you" and he said "I dont care" plainly he never cares because he is such a "man". (**** that)
2006-09-25 05:19:40 · 11 answers · asked by pinklacedshoes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to him......tell him you just want to be friends......but don't go alone in case he gets angry......have a friend come with you.......have that friend hide......you can tell him that your not sure what your feelings for him and that you just want to get everything straighten things out
2006-09-25 05:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, my friends don't argue with me. Sure we have disagreements sometimes, but never all the time. Second, you will not maintain your friendship even if you never break up. You said yourself, the chemistry just isn't there and he loves to argue. Just inform him that you can't take it anymore. If you want to play the friend card, that's fine, but remember no guy wants to hear that. You might need to get another friend after this. I'm sorry, but there is never an easy way to break up with anyone. Good luck.
2006-09-25 08:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety if you don't want to be with him then you have to tell him. plain and simple, well not simple i understand. he sounds like no matter how you do it. hes going to be a a** and more in likely no things are not going to be the same for your friendship. but just sit down and try to explain how you feel to him (not being rude or mean.) and that you still want to bet friends. that's all that you can really do. (or be miserable) just kinding but if he dosent except what you have to say and try to still be friends then he was never a good Friend in the first place. but remember that the world has alot out there so youll be okay.
2006-09-25 05:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by messed up hair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The operative be conscious is boyfriend. this may well be a boy who hasn't matured right into a guy. actual men do no longer verbally abuse women. some stay as boys all their life. Do your self a want early in life and detect a actual guy. they are available.
2016-10-01 08:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAT HIM TO IT!!!!!! Don't give him the opportunity to break up with you first, especially since he's acting like a jerk. And whatever, if your friend wants to date him, then she'll find out for herself that his personality isn't the bst one. You should have moved on a long time ago. Don't hang on to the past. As son as you break things off with him, find someone to have fun with, not for a long term thing. THen you'll realize what you've been missing out on for the past six months.
2006-09-25 05:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by luscious_ladie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok It's good that yall relationship has chemistry in it, but he do not need to be going down your shirt in public!!!!
But anyway you need to tell him that you arre tried of his ways! And yall need to talk it over
2006-09-25 05:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by trey songz wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your new guy give him a call and tell him that he's friken you every night. Unless he wants to come over and join you, that might work.
2006-09-25 05:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him watch you in bed with another guy.
Trust me. He will definitely get the hint.
2006-09-25 05:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's all the drama just break up with the little ******!
2006-09-25 05:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by busybeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say u have a baby penis and that he will never satisfy u and that u need a bigger man.
2006-09-25 05:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by miguel j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋