Which path would you take?

Question

I have reached a crossroad in my life and I'm not sure which way to go.

My current career is ending next month and my lease is also up. I have little money in savings and family and friends who say I can live with them until I find a new job.

I have been in a long distance relationship with a man for over a year. He has asked me to move in with him, so I have been tailoring my job search to a 50 mile radius of his city. Basically, I have been living my life as though we are really going to be together.

The problem is, I'm not sure if this is the best choice now. He has an exwife and daughter who he sees regularly. He really enjoys attention and love, but doesn't always reciprocate. He expects me to sit at home now, while he is out with his 'family'. He isn't always available to me, but he expects me to answer the phone whenever he calls.

What do I do? Move home while unemployed, or stick to the plan of being with him?

Answer 1

Do what is right for you - that means without anybody else in mind. If he or anybody else calls it quits or things don't work out, at least you know you can do what you think is best for you.
Always make sure you take care of #1 first !
Good luck in whatever you decide.

Answer 2

Hopefully, typing this question has given you a little clarity. I'm not sure what would be good about moving in with this man. Do not let a man trick you into moving in with him, and you're thinking it's a commitment because it's not. Let him make a commitment first if that's what you want. If not, I would move in with family.

Answer 3

First of all dont cripple yourself.. find a job anywhere . and then stand up to him and tell him that if he can go out you can do the same.. you must be independent . if not then you might have to repent later.

Answer 4

i said go home for now cause not one love you more than your family during hard times.

Answer 5

I'd go with the first answer

Answer 6

Go with yourh eart!

Answer 7

unemployed and happy