Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

How would you start changing things? My biggest problem was listening to others and even when I was married I was basically living my life to suit my husband not myself. I have been married most of my life. I don't want to hear anything anybody has to say about how I live my life. Not from any of my grown children or my sisters. I am a grown and divorced woman who is tired of everybody putting in their two cents worth when they don't help me pay my bills and have never walked in my shoes. They want to tell me I should be married and think the worst about me because I am single. I hardly even date. All I can think about is making money to fix this stupid house and get it paid off. They see more of their husbands then I do my boyfriend. What is their problem? Can't they understand that I would like to have everything in order before and if I ever get married again? I never want to be dependant on a man again.

2006-09-19 19:08:16 · 6 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine asked me if these are the signs when a husbands best friend has the hots for the wife. My friend is confuse and worried.
Her husband's best friend made a misterious call to her cell phone, she cought him staring at her many times, when she hands something out him, he would try to touch her hands.
If these are the signs of him liking her, should she tell her husband, or just keep it to herself not to cause problems betweent the husband and best friend?

2006-09-19 19:06:49 · 29 answers · asked by Brenda U 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex broke up a year and a half ago when I moved to college because he could not handle the long distance. We havve continued to stay friends and both still have strong emotions for each other. He just said we are both living seperate lives and it was too hard for him. He calls me about every two weeks and we see each other now and then. This has been going on for a year and a half now and I realized recently that it needs to stop because its holding me back from other relationships. He tells me he likes to talk to me, I still mean a lot to him....etc. So I decided that I wouldn't answer his calls and he kept on calling and calling. When I finally called him back after he called three days in a row.. he told me the same old thing..want to see how ur doing etc. IF thats all he wanted why did he call three days in a row? GUYS..if he really wanted me back wouldnt he say so ? he is e

2006-09-19 19:06:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

An out of shape blob that used to be that"Hottie"? Do you believe one has a responsibility to keep fit at least to the degree they were when you married. It seems like bait and switch.

2006-09-19 19:05:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i think that a girl may like me but i am not sure. how can i tell?

2006-09-19 19:05:18 · 5 answers · asked by Wondering 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 19:04:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I would at least like to meet them! I have no problem with her having male friends as long as they are not Meth Addicts. I am not trying to be her father just her husband who cares about her safety! Control her life is the farthest thing from my mind! I would just like the respect of meet these people, cause I do the same thing for her!

2006-09-19 19:03:57 · 25 answers · asked by marine_one1996 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she had the nerve to send me a picture of the going it in my back yard

2006-09-19 19:02:30 · 23 answers · asked by karmentimkemphswhore 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, please no rude answers..real women answers..I get very upset and jeaulous when there are extremley sexy nasty women on tv with my husband, does anyonelse? I dont know if its an esteem problem because I myself am 110 lbs and do modeling and am told im pretty hot myself..so, im not sure what to do, it really is hard for me....I think its because I feel maybe he thinks women should be that way? He used to have tons of hot women before we were married..so, offer your NICE opinions and suggestions please

2006-09-19 19:02:29 · 5 answers · asked by Snake happy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can write one specialy for you. just tell me your fantasy.

2006-09-19 19:02:28 · 8 answers · asked by tony7861 1 in Singles & Dating

When youve been married to someone for 8 years and they pass away at a young age and unexpectically, when do u start dating again...how do u know when the time is right?

2006-09-19 19:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his wife love someone else also

2006-09-19 18:59:59 · 12 answers · asked by siya j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a roommate that has sex with her boyfriend, while I'm in the same room. I'm not sure why she does this, but I get imbarrassed and leave the room. Should I have a talk with her? Are am I just making too big of a deal about it?

2006-09-19 18:59:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

because I feel that it is less intrusive and so it doesn't seem that I'm forcing myself to her. I also don't want to bother her if she is busy. What do you think?

2006-09-19 18:59:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello, My husband and I had split up once due to infidelity on both sides, we have been back together for 5 years since, however, when I go to these girly partys he gets mad when i buy the toys and acts totaly offended and refuses to use them,,do you think the past is a reflection of this attitude?

2006-09-19 18:57:31 · 9 answers · asked by Snake happy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just curious because this guy got an erection while just talking to me.

2006-09-19 18:56:15 · 12 answers · asked by lavender 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, is it me, or are alot of People Online just Mean because they can be?

I mean, what percentage of People would you say are actually Nice, and what percentage are just Mean?

2006-09-19 18:55:08 · 14 answers · asked by Corandero 2 in Singles & Dating

MY ex keeps calling me..its been a year and half since we broke up. WE havent had sex and i live 2 hours away from him but he keeps calling...why do you think this is? he says he cares and loves me but we are both living seperate lives and he has a new girlfriend!! if he has a new girl..why has he continued to call me after 1.5 years? and its not a booty call b/c i refuse to have sex w.him!. i still love him but don't know what to do b/c he has another girl at home (i live 2 hours away). its killing me to keep in touch with him b/c i miss him so much. he is emotionally shy....but he broke up with me...so i dont know how to act. should i tell him i need time to meet other guys and that he is holding me back? if so will he ever call me again?.this has been all i think about for the past 1.5 years.im so emotionally drained! i just really love him.he is all i think about and i dont want to lose him. if i say that i need time will he ever call me again? or will he expect me 2 call? advice?

2006-09-19 18:51:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two men in my life. One who I have a long history with and a child. One whom I love with all my heart but we seem to have a lot of past issues to work through. And want so bad to get past our old conflicts. The second man is a good man with a lot of potential. He is nice and a little shy, but sometimes acts like a child. I feel close to him in a friendly way. I do not get the sparks I get with the first one. But with the second man we do not have to many conflicts. I also have a child with second one. I love both just in two very different ways. #1 guy, Is the type of love you feel electricity run through your veins. #2 guy is comfortable . So who do I choose. I have child whith each, and when I have sex with #1 its electric. But dont really have romantic attraction to #2. But he is still good man. I could be content and staedy with #2 or I could have the crazy passionate life with #2 help please???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

2006-09-19 18:51:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just curious

2006-09-19 18:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by cav_soccer 1 in Singles & Dating

Typically who is supposed to ask that gurl... now that I am at a college level the girl or the boy?

2006-09-19 18:50:27 · 14 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 18:46:55 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so my mother in law is still best goody goody friends with my husbands ex fiance, and every time i go over there for holidays shes always there, could anyone tell me there storys or tips or anything to handle this situation

2006-09-19 18:46:30 · 5 answers · asked by darkfairiy 1 in Family

OK, let's say that she's definitely NOT in the mood to have sex. Joe's a good man who won't cheat, and he's not going to try to pressure her into it. Would the Average Jane mind if her husband masturbates, or would she feel slighted, or even disgusted? Let's face it, he has sexual needs regardless as to whether she's in the mood or not, and he wants a good night sleep and a fulfilling day tomorrow. Would women mind?

PS - I'm not married yet, and this is one question that I have.

2006-09-19 18:45:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have business friends we want to invite to our wedding. Is it completly rude to send wedding invitations to our business friends at their work?

2006-09-19 18:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by bridetobebrandie 4 in Weddings

I've had relationships. I haven't felt anything for any of them. I feel sorta bad cause they have all been nice girls. I just can't feel affection anymore. Am I doomed to meaningless sex?

2006-09-19 18:44:44 · 15 answers · asked by tengu312003 3 in Marriage & Divorce

not like some gay james blunt shiet. I mean like real guitarists like tommy emmanuel.

2006-09-19 18:44:15 · 8 answers · asked by mohawktrench 1 in Singles & Dating

i go to a school and there is such a cute boy how do i talk to him around his friends n how can i keep my shiness away?

2006-09-19 18:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by RoxyChick30 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 18:41:51 · 2 answers · asked by 4divaz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hello

2006-09-19 18:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by buck y 1 in Singles & Dating