his wife love someone else also
2006-09-19 18:59:59 · 12 answers · asked by siya j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YES..get out of this relationship. If he loved you so much, why did he end up marrying someone else?? This shows he is not capable of standing up for what he believes in. He has messed up his life but you still got a chance to get out of this relationship and do something about it.
2006-09-19 19:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by peacelover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offense at all, but I'd be pissed if my husband still had an ongoing relationship with any ex. We are both very open and secure people, but some things are just wrong, unless you have a relationship with his wife as well. My husband gets along with his exes but they have no part in our life, nor do my ex boyfriends. Everyone needs to move on at some point. I have four married friends and they each feel the same way. Its a fact that a relationship like yours and your ex's could easily and accidentally turn back into something it once was. You and him may not think this to be likely, but it is the facts. Some relationships need to come to a close. His new wife is his life..FOREVER! if his wife supposedly loves someone else (if you are hearing this from him, (he may be BSing you)
Sounds like he and his wife made a huge mistake. Marriage should not be taken so lightly. I've been married only months but been together a couple years, I can't imagine me or him ever loving anyone else.
Good luck to you!
2006-09-20 02:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by melanie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) Don't buy that wife loving someone else: probably 3rd oldest line in a guys guide to getting some on the side.
b) You are committing adultery.
c) Would you want some woman to do this to the two of you if you were married?
d) You are taking yourself off the market for a guy who isn't honest with his wife and using the "secrecy" thrill for his own turn on.
e) Personally, I think you are smarter than that.
2006-09-20 02:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in a stage of denial? Honey, wake up and smell the coffee! I have a strong feeling that you are so terrified to face the truth that you will accept whatever he tells you.
Why don't you do your own research. Does his wife know who you are? If not, befriend her. Get to know her.
Whatever facts you find out - you make the decision from there.
But morally speaking - for your own sake - you do not want to be used as a convenient outlet - for life that your future will be wasted away, waiting hopelessly that by the time you realize, you're already receiving retirement pension and medicare!
2006-09-20 02:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by calofficer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are all doing wrong because you are disregarding the sanctity of marriage. If these people were truly in love enough to get married, they would not cheat on eachother. And you should not want to be involved with someone who can commit on that kind of level. How do you know for sure that he really loves you and is not just using you?
2006-09-20 02:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by tom8o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your doing something wrong and so is the wife. A marriage is between two people, no more no less.
2006-09-20 02:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that's true then they should not have gotten married and yes your wrong for what your doing. he is now a married man and your going to end up making a great big mess of all yawls lives.
2006-09-20 02:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by tommysbabydoll@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget what the wife's doing.. you have to live with yourself... not her.
If he really loved you .. then he wouldn't be doing this to you. There is a proper way of doing this and he didn't choose it!!!
I would end it and move on .. you deserve better.
2006-09-20 02:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then they shouldnt have gotten married..u should ask him if your worth him leaving his wife 4
2006-09-20 02:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your party to adultery and you actually need to ask if your doing something wrong??
2006-09-20 02:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by jatz46 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋