OK, let's say that she's definitely NOT in the mood to have sex. Joe's a good man who won't cheat, and he's not going to try to pressure her into it. Would the Average Jane mind if her husband masturbates, or would she feel slighted, or even disgusted? Let's face it, he has sexual needs regardless as to whether she's in the mood or not, and he wants a good night sleep and a fulfilling day tomorrow. Would women mind?
PS - I'm not married yet, and this is one question that I have.
2006-09-19 18:45:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In this scenario, of course NOT. Why should she be selfish and deny him the act of pleasuring himself especially if she won't have sex with him?
2006-09-19 18:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh man if it is a case that you are not good looking then there is an understandable situation if he is not interested in porns and sex even then it is understandable but what the hell is wrong with him either he has some other chick or he get bored . you can try this one out and if wont work doc will help you "just look a hot chick and when he came to home tell him that we didnt have sex from so long and i really want it today i really love to have sex with you come on have some fun " if he says yes then do the further "Now its might not be necessary that you get satisfied and if this happen just dont let him know that you are unsatisfied as this might be the problem and to check it you can really do this drama of satisfaction and while have sex say lines like "oh i love you " and other so that he feels that you really enjoying that " once he think that is satisfies you he will feel confident and next time (2 or 3 days after all this) you ask him for sex if he show that he is aroused that means thats really your problem and you need to talk or need a counselor Hope that will help
2016-03-17 02:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes some women would mind. Even if she isn't in the mood she will be pretty pissed. Why? because she's a woman, and they're just freaking weird. Me personally, no I dind't mind when my ex masturbated. We watched porn together, and if I wasn't in the mood and he tried to coax me I'd just tell him to watch some porn and get over it, he wasn't getting any tonight. I also had my moments of personal time in the shower, and he respected that. But I am not your typical woman. Typical women feel jealous that their man is looking at another woman, or fantasizing about another woman and pleasuring himself. Thats just the way they are. Good luck to you, and rosie palm and her five sisters.
2006-09-19 18:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No not at all. I just get pissed when my husband masturbates because I want to have sex all of the time. But if I told him I wasn't in the mood (it wouldn't happen but if it did) he should certainly give himself a hand.
2006-09-20 06:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I don't mind, especially if its the time of the month or i'm not there or ill, i don't mind at all. However if it happens every single day, and there's no physical relationship between man and wife, then obviously there must be a problem.
2006-09-19 18:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by sugarsweet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't see what's the big deal about...Heck, I even encourage it if I don't feel like doing it, sometimes watch too..
We even incorporate it (mutual masturbation) during our lovemaking sometimes...
For truly intimate couples, that just adds spice into it and there shouldn't be any problems.
2006-09-19 20:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jmyooooh 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I felt like he didnt really need to, I would hate it and if he did it often I would want to break up. But I am a serious celibate so he would have to be too. If I wasnt, as in if I was still just having normal relationship, I would still mind. I would be more impressed, more attracted at his sexual control.
2006-09-19 18:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wives Masturbating Husbands
2017-02-22 04:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt mind, it but I personally would rather watch, then you hide it. Reason for that so that Jane would suspect you cheating.....
2006-09-19 18:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fine with me
2006-09-20 21:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by pakir poyum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋