Hello, please no rude answers..real women answers..I get very upset and jeaulous when there are extremley sexy nasty women on tv with my husband, does anyonelse? I dont know if its an esteem problem because I myself am 110 lbs and do modeling and am told im pretty hot myself..so, im not sure what to do, it really is hard for me....I think its because I feel maybe he thinks women should be that way? He used to have tons of hot women before we were married..so, offer your NICE opinions and suggestions please
2006-09-19 19:02:29 · 5 answers · asked by Snake happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's nothing that u can do to avoid it. Beautiful women are everywhere, not just on tv. Your husband married u right? He may think they're beautiful but he doesn't even know these people so why are u so worried? Instead of worrying about him, perhaps u should worry more about changing your attitude about yourself and be assured that your husband only wants u. If u don't work on your insecurities, no amount of reassurance from him is going to convince u.
2006-09-19 19:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes unfortunately im the same way, but i have very low self esteem.. and ive been hurt by men in my life prior to my husband, cheating and physically and mentally abusive relationships.. and its not just women on tv, its any woman thats even half way decent looking that my husband comes in contact with .. tv, mags, pc, real life.. if i know he finds them attractive i freak out internally.. i know its stupid, and i know most of the problem is with in myself.. but unfortunately i have yet to find away to control it.. although i do notice that when i feel more confident in myself the more im able to handle it, rather then when im in a slump.. but yes there are women that react the same way as u .. tonight my husband was defending some race car chics photo spread she did (some show was debating it) and i quickly shut him up when i said oh how would u like it that was our daughter spread eagle in a tiny bathing suit like that in front of a car would u think it was ok then??? .. kinda changed his way of looking at it atleast for a moment lol..
2006-09-19 19:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if it upsets u, u should ask ur husband not to watch shows or movies with those kind of women in them. Or u can take it like well u know what he's watching them on tv or dvd, but he is here with me.
2006-09-19 19:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by cat_c442 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didn't marry one of those hot chicks he married you for you. on the flip side my husband gets weird if i make a statement about richard gere/robert redford but he knows i married him for the simple reason called love
2006-09-19 19:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes home with you ;;;;not out without you sweetie. you know your beautiful . i doubt you should be concerned.
2006-09-19 19:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋