Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

hi everyone. i actually dont need advices, just opinions. i am married 2 years already, am young-23. we had a child who died.
he is far away for 4 months already. and i feel i dont luv him anymore. i feel he is myfriend, we talk by phone, write, but i cant even say "baby" to him or"miss u" coz i dont miss him at all.
i can ttell him this things, and dont know if i should do this. if i stay with him the rest of my life i know it will be ok-a good calm respectfull husband, a big house , car, maybe children.
but i cant even imagine to let him touch me, or kiss or make luv. mabey there's somebody who experienced the same?! pls give ur opinion.

2006-09-19 20:04:31 · 17 answers · asked by notme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife thanks seperate bank accounts andother trivial things should be different and I am old school and think we should share these things!

2006-09-19 20:03:48 · 8 answers · asked by marine_one1996 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i meet this guy in college and we hit it off really well. I was going through a divorce and he was still with his girlfriend of 6 years but was very un happy and wanted to leave her so we were kinda going through the same thing together. We started really liking eachother and got serious. it has been six months now and he is still with her because he says he dont make enough money to move out and live on his own and that I need to be patient and give him more time to get settled. I offered him to come and live with me until he got situated but then he says he will still have to pay child support and cant afford it right now so i dont know what to do. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but is stuck and cant leave his situation yet but he doesnt want to be with her and he wants to be with me and he doesnt know what to do so what do you think the best advice for me is???? Is it worth waiting any longer for?

2006-09-19 20:03:01 · 20 answers · asked by kristen e 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this a problem?

2006-09-19 20:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Or is it a learned behavior? Why do people cheat so much even though they say they are in love?

2006-09-19 20:02:00 · 14 answers · asked by Jmyooooh 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 20:01:48 · 4 answers · asked by maribel s 1 in Family

My sister is 32 and going through a divorce after 9 years of marriage. They did not have kids because they wanted to focus on their careers. It has been 6 months since her soon to be Ex moved out. And my sister was handeling it rather well until she found out that he was dating again. Now she is letting it run her life. She calls me at least a dozen times a day, has missed a lot of work, and quite frankly is starting to look like crap. I have tried every thing I know how to help her. My biggest problem now is she calls me at work. This is a problem because I am a registered nurse and work in the emergency room. So it a little hard to leave a patient to take a call from her. Even my kids know that you only call mom at work if it is an emergency. I have asked her not to call but she will not stop. I can't ignore her calls because when I recieve a phone page I don't know if it is an internal hospital call or an outside line. What can I do to get through to her. I don't want to hurt her.

2006-09-19 20:01:34 · 7 answers · asked by Kali_girl825 6 in Family

do u believe in only one great love? for me, i do... and great love involves great risk and great loves are not always happy ending.

2006-09-19 20:01:17 · 9 answers · asked by ok 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Only my personal opinion this: It can be difficult to spend whole life with a partner from a different race as yours as there are differences in comfort levels, moral and cultural values, food habits. Is it all about curiosity factor or plain sexual attraction?

In Western societies, interracial relationships are common. However, it's a very serious issue for Adult Indian males (Unlike those from China, Japan, Korea) especially abroad, who are under society compulsions to marry within FAMILY arrangements. Marriage and spousal scenario in India is an over-complicated scheme of things if you seen Monsoon Wedding and Bride N' Prejudice.

If you are attracted interracially and want to go ahead, what ADJUSTMENTS you think you have to make in your lifestyle? I had been dating an Eastern European girl, and I'm confused about my choices. There are obvious cultural differences, and I really don't know how to resolve this dichotomy:

2006-09-19 20:01:16 · 6 answers · asked by quilm 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty much a loner, That's is not the problem because, I am satisfied with that.. I have two friends, which they both mean the world to me.... although one of them lately has been acting different she has met this other girl, her and the other girls husband works together, so I can understand how they might get along considering they're both married and they can relate, in which I'm not married so I can't about that or have nothing in common in that certain aspect although my best friend and I use to hang out quite a bit, she'd always call me, I'd call her, etc, but since this girl has came into the picture she has not called me or anything really it seems, I call her and all she talks about is this other girl, about how their going to do this, or how their going to do that together, or how they hung out and did something... the other girl lives closer to her then I do (I live on the other side of town, its a pretty big town) so I can't really get over there because I can't drive, and this girl can.. so I know maybe thats why she hangs out with her alot is because she is "available" or w/e you want to call it, but still she never wants to hang out with me anymore it seems...and she hasn't called me that much since she's met that girl so... thats not really a good sign is it? I know some people are going to say "Don't be jealous" but I can't help it I guess because this girl is stealing one of my two best/only friends away from me.. What should I do? please any advice/suggestions from anyone.. be nice please!

2006-09-19 19:57:59 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 in Friends

he wants to marry me but if i ignor him or stop contacting he gots imotional, bange n broke his hand,tries to kill him, i funnily told wat if i m 40 ys old lady he refuses to b bothered,even now i feel i too got addicted to his chatting if i dont chatt i feel incomplete

2006-09-19 19:57:43 · 26 answers · asked by emmie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 19:57:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This isn't sexual! Tonight someone wanted me to call and talk to another woman's husband to get some answers. I think it's wrong. Men stick with men and women stick with women (this isn't about dating, it's about friendship). When I said I wasn't about to call and talk with another woman's man they said that's all in my head and no one else thinks like that! I'm not a kid either! Aren't there unwritten rules for this?

2006-09-19 19:56:59 · 10 answers · asked by Candy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey folks.Though i had troublesome past,i mean dad left me n mom, mom took to drinking.Now evrything is fine, mom is fine,i've gud job(though not grt), have a lovely boyfriend.me n my bf r of same age(25) Well! my bf loves me a lot, though we have diff. way of thinking.I'm sensitive, e is not at all sensitive(e cries only during tragic movie,i dont!!), e leads an independent life,i am kinda dependent on my loved ones.He wants to marry me wen we are in gud position(we wants both of us to earn 50k together b4 tying the knot),i too agree...now the probs is i'm over possessive of him, he has gud relationship with his colleague,females also,which i cant take.He says e is in service sector n e shud be nice to all...Some of them r his frienz also,they sms him,call..thats all.I trust him but i'm insecure.I hate all those girls who r close to him.Its not those girls r bad,its just i'm jealous....i've always been insecure in my life,i dunno wat to do? i luv him to death,i wanna change!

2006-09-19 19:55:31 · 11 answers · asked by simran v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate all men but I really dont know why. I have no personal reason to, I've never been in one of those abusive controlling psycho relationships, never been cheated on, most of the men that Ive come across in my life have been really nice, genuine people. sometimes i want a bf but i feel disgusted at the thought of being intimate well unless this is weird but unless I get to dominate him? im not a feminist but I would rather be a lesbian than go anywhere near a guy. Is that normal? please dont tell me to see a shrink. I dont want to share this with anyone. when i try talking to my mom she just says concentrate on your schoolwork not boys, etc. I'm too embarrased to tell my friends.
Also when i go out i dont wear nice cute clothes, i try them on at home but I wear grey or brown or black really loose fitting clothes. I feel really ugly and unattractive sometimes.
pls be serious.

2006-09-19 19:55:06 · 25 answers · asked by angel under cover 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, I met a guy online a few months ago.....we talked on the phone for a while. We decided we were gonna wait 1 year to meet in person. We just wanted to get to know each other on a different level first without any "strings". There was no "cybering" as people put it....we just met in a chat room and things took off from there. I fell head over heals with this guy over the phone. All of the sudden he tells me he is going to try to work things out with his ex wife "for the sake of the kids" . So, we backed off and didn't talk for a month. He calls me tonight out of the clear blue sky....tells me he actually has custody of the kids she just gave them up...and he misses me, and he thought about me everyday....yadayadayada.....I missed him too, and I want to talk to him to but I am so scared of getting hurt again. I am not a desperate person, we just have so much in common and he can make me laugh, and oh ya all know....he is "everything I would want in a man". Do I give him another chance

2006-09-19 19:54:21 · 17 answers · asked by justhanginout 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-19 19:53:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

life is really boring, i love to write long emails and explore common interests

2006-09-19 19:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by Smiling face 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, it was my girlfriends 24th birthday and we were all having a good time until she started opening up some presents. One of her friends bought her a pair of shorts. My girlfriend got kind of uncomfortable and looked at me with that "you won't mind if i wear these right?" kind of look. I just shook my head no as in she was not going to wear them. Later on, I brought the pair of shorts to her and told her that she really appreciated the gift, but that I didn't allow her to wear shorts because I think they are immodest and don't want other men staring at my girlfiend's legs. She got kind of upset and later called my girlfriend and told her to break up with me. Should I have just told my girlfriend to take the shorts back for store credit and avoided that conversation? I was just trying to be open and honest because I figured she would ask in the future why she never wore the shorts. Did I handle that right?

2006-09-19 19:53:37 · 6 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Singles & Dating

iam in lovewith my sister daughter since she born.both r love each other,now she get good personality and matured she refusing .but i dont want to leave her .how ican i express my problem to her. what should i do

2006-09-19 19:53:09 · 18 answers · asked by anil k 1 in Weddings

How should I conduct mself in the courtroom? It is a family law case,. is it possible to find an attorney to represent me " pro-bono"?

2006-09-19 19:50:22 · 6 answers · asked by sofora k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

shes 35 yrs old!

2006-09-19 19:50:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Like get into bed, no talking, have sex, then see ya later!
Even you are an adult and single? Will you be judged bad?

2006-09-19 19:48:07 · 17 answers · asked by MIssalli 1 in Singles & Dating

when a guy keep in touch with you on everyday basis.. specailly when he is not old friend but a new one means that he just wants to be friends?.. you donot have to be in touch with on everyday basis , specially when u r not in the same city?? am i right? plezz giv a thought n answer ..

2006-09-19 19:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by hi 3 in Singles & Dating

The truth is I'm a bored old billionaire who writes these questions for fun. My wife is off screwing the pool boy. I'm so alone. I have a $89,000 Sovereign ring which I hate. If you answer this riddle I will give you the ring and if you live in Australia you can visit any time. God I'm bored. - Expensive potassium?

2006-09-19 19:46:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm with the love of my life, he treats me better than anyone i have been with... he compliments me on hoe "beautiful" i am and tells me such things every day, he loves to cuddle...i can actually trust him in every way, i wouldn't have to worry about him running off with someone else...sounds like the perfect catch yes?....well i have a big problem, yes i know nobody is perfect, but ever since i moved in with him i noticed he is still a kid in alot of ways, i am only a few months younger than he is but i have done alot more things and been thruogh alot more hell than he has, so i have matured alot faster than he has in life...i feel like i am raising a child, i have to constantly ask him to help out, and then he says he will do things but never do, he also has a short fuse when he is being asked to do things...simple crap that shouldn't even need and pushing to do like take care of food when he is done with it instead of leaving it out to rot, take a shower more often than twice a week

2006-09-19 19:46:35 · 20 answers · asked by Sydney 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I've been seeing this girl for 3 wks now and things are going great. We've been out 4-5 times and she seems really into it. But the problem is that she never contacts me first (phone, email, texts, etc?). Whenever I call her, she answers right away and we talk for about an hour, but she never calls me first. I'm just confused that she never makes the first move? I don't want to expend myself and seem needy. But I like this girl a lot and don't want to mess it up? Do I just ignore her? and wait ? What's the best way to keep her interested? I'm confused.

2006-09-19 19:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by dom 1 in Singles & Dating

do i have to split them down the middle even if my name is not on the account? and what about college loans...am i responsible for helping her pay them off even if my name is no where on the paperwork?????

2006-09-19 19:43:50 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am fall in love i want to get marry with him is it possible

2006-09-19 19:43:45 · 7 answers · asked by tweety 1 in Weddings

I mean seriously! Can you honestly say that you can come up with the goods to procure this attachment to your collection?

2006-09-19 19:43:07 · 20 answers · asked by tired 1 in Singles & Dating