I am getting close to a man at work who is in an unhappy relationship. I first said that he had to get out of that relationship and then spend some time on his own before I could even think about anything, but we are becoming closer anyway. I know it is wrong but I haven't been in a relationship for 5 years, and it is a year or so since a man has cuddled me, or stroked my hair, or been the slightest bit affectionate to me, and I am desperately lonely. I don't have a partner, nor my parents any more, or any close family and I am tempted to fall into an affair just to feel special for a while. I convince myself that he is in a bad situation and just needs some TLC as well but I know deep down that he has to sort his life out himself and that it would doubtless be just a sexual thing for him, whereas I am looking for nurturing and affection.
I am 35
Any advice would be much appreciated!
2006-09-19
21:01:40
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catangelwings
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