There is 1 boy who likes me but i don't!!
On any occasion he is sending me 1 or the other things.
i have tried many time 2 avoid it but he is not understanding.
Once he call me on my cellphone at that time i forget it at home therefore my mother took it & he talk with my mother.
i don't want my mother to know.
to stop this all what do i do????
2006-09-19 21:29:24 · 14 answers · asked by kapoor's 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your mother into confidence and tell her about this guy...tell her that you are trying your best to avoid her ...in fact ..i'm sure she will help you when you will tell her, you should totally ignore him..dont pick up his phone, and also straight away make him clear again that you dont like him and also not to chase you like this...or warn him that you will lauch a complaint against him if he continues to do so.
2006-09-19 21:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by ritz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell him in a respectful way that you are not interested in him as a special friend. If he disregards your request, tell him you will call the police.
2. Then avoid and ignore him.
3. Tell your mother how you feel.
4. If he continues to pursue you, it's called "stalking". Tell someone else who can help you, i.e. a teacher, counselor, police officer. It will depend on how old you are as to who you should contact.
5. If the person you seek help from does not help you, go to someone else. Take this seriously.
2006-09-20 04:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Miss ! This is a case of One sided. Only if you avoid the problem will not be solved. You will have to do more.Do not accept anything he gives. Threaten him to tell his parents or police if he do that. Once you tell him frankly with courage what you want or you have engaged with somebody.
2006-09-20 04:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Priti 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you're not interested and ask him to stop phoning you as it's obviously causing you some distress. If he continues tell him he has to stop because no matter what he does you're not going to be interested.
I hope this helps you as i know how it feels when something like this happens.
2006-09-20 04:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rachie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-tell him to stop calling you and sending you some things
2-change your number phone
3-tell to your mom about him even if you don't want her to know but she's your mother and she can help you
don't forget that if he continues to PLAGUE you, you can ask help to the teacher, counselor or to the authorities
good luck!
2006-09-20 05:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by glooby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know wat allthese adolescent problems.they keep chasing u thruu these romeos of todays until u r big enugh to avoid this all by u'rself. two p's will surely work 4 u sweety.first one say PLEASE leave me.and if he still don't understands that means he's lustily attracted to u.then use the another P i.e. police . it sure will help . if pleasings an'ol don't work some beating surely will.try it.
2006-09-20 04:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by shashi kant choubey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell him seriouslly to stop stalking you, thats what he is doing, if you have already told him to stop. Tell that you arer just not interested and to please leave u alone. If he dosen't then seek help from the authorities.
2006-09-20 04:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by lori 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a nice guy who is in deeply , madly and fully in love with u. its sad that u r not interested in that boy. well, its ur wish. ask him to stop that . be frank and clear everything
2006-09-20 04:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you care wat your mum thinks tell her that he's just a jerk who annoys you. then this is wat you should do. stop dropping hints as this guy either dun understands or he's just pretending. return him all the gifts he gave you (if you dont miss keeping them) and tell him straight in the face that you dun like him. tell him to stop bothering you as you wan peace, life without him. just do it without pitying him or you'll be sorry for yourself.
2006-09-20 04:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out to please stop. It may hurt but it is the most simple and effective way.
2006-09-20 04:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by rr8603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋