Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

2006-09-19 22:58:29 · 5 answers · asked by luv_luana 1 in Friends

2006-09-19 22:56:39 · 23 answers · asked by adam r 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i get him to really satisfy me! being worshipped is fine but sometimes all the dog wants is a bone!

2006-09-19 22:55:56 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

sidharth sankar sahoo birth 29th dec 1982 time 6.22 stardust -gemini how long days my marriage possible is it love or arrenged ? near or distance?

2006-09-19 22:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by gita p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-19 22:50:43 · 14 answers · asked by Josh r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 22:50:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love someone..since 2 years ,but i m unable to marry him due to family....our caste is different

2006-09-19 22:50:25 · 23 answers · asked by ruchi j 1 in Family

My hubby expects me to read his thoughts and to know in every moment what to do or say without asking him. He wants me to understand him but does not want to communicate with me openly. When I told him to tell me, what is wrong and what can I do, he just said that if I don’t understand, then I am stupid, that I have to take care what I will do in the future because he cannot stand it anymore.

However, he is never willing to tell me clearly, what the problem is, but rather just a half-truth, "throwing the hook" and wait for me to get the point.

For example, he promised to go for a walk, and I was ready, then he told me he was sleepy. I said OK, let's go, it will wake you up… After the walk, he went to bed and said that he didn't feel good. I thought that he was just sleepy and I insisted to go for a walk, but I didn’t have any idea that he is ill, because he didn't tell me so. He was expecting me to understand the word sleepy as ill, what I didn't.

Of course, I told him that I don't like it and that I expect him to communicate more concrete with me, but he usually started yelling and accusing me for everything. I simply have no right to say anything I don't like, because always it will be my fault. I am expected to pretend that I don't know anything and that everything is OK even when it is obvious that there is something wrong.

Furthermore, he said that he wanted to keep me out of his problems because it bothers me and I am not strong enough to know about it.
On the other side, he thinks that he is fair and good to me and that he is doing everything for me to be happy and that he is desperate because he knows that I am not. But he still doesn't want to se the things from my side.

I feel lost and helpless and I am afraid to make any step further to do something for us. I feel he just does not respect me, treats me as a child.

Please, don't tell me to talk with him, because I have tried so many times and it does not work. He also doesn't feel like going to some therapist – he thinks the problem is in me, not in him. He does not cooperate and he underestimates my side of the problem so I just need to do something only for myself.

All I want is to get back my self-respect and make him respect me.

2006-09-19 22:50:02 · 15 answers · asked by smiiile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was asked to choose between my bf and my family.. i wish it didn't happened coz' at that time, my head wanted to explode and i know how painful it was to my family when i chose my bf and how hard it was for me to choose between them

2006-09-19 22:48:25 · 16 answers · asked by ok 4 in Singles & Dating

Several homicial maniacs break into your home. They tie and gag you, your wife and three kids. One of the children is selected at random and taken to another room to face certain death. While your child being stabbed to death he/she is screaming for their mommy and daddy. One of the demented intruders gives you and option: You can scream back to your dying child, "Mommy and daddy hate you" over and over again. If you do so you and your entire family will be set free, and if you don't your entire family, including you, will be slaughtered.

2006-09-19 22:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by Praise Satan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 22:46:47 · 13 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 29, Christian single white male, with Brown hair and blue eyes. 1.76m tall, currently living in London. Is there anybody out there who is prepared to marry me?

2006-09-19 22:45:51 · 19 answers · asked by weeroppadc2 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, to all the girls out there, would you slap my face till it turns red if I ask u to ??

Would love to hear ur replies (and if u r interested to slap, and u live in the UAE then contact me :P)

2006-09-19 22:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 22:42:22 · 14 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 22:41:55 · 17 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm seeing someone. he broke up with his longterm girlfriend when we started it. it might sounds like 'wow he loves me and all that'. but that's not compeletely true. he doesn't give a damn about me. he doesnt' call. but whenever i'm with some other guy he gets really jealous.
anyway, i can't settle down. i keep thinking i should be out with someone else. i flirt with everyone i see. i can't settle down. i am a very passionate person. i can't spend more than a week without going out on a date. i'm gonna go crazy

2006-09-19 22:41:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a 7 yrs long relationship. Altough I think I am happy with my boyfriend, lately I feel attracted to another guy. But both at the same time... Does anyone have the same experience?

2006-09-19 22:37:26 · 21 answers · asked by akroj 3 in Singles & Dating

my wife wants children shes 35 im 31,she said im being selfish but i really dont like kids at all,our lives are fantastic and im happy with our 3 cats,our relationship hit the skids after i said this,but i said real reason was i was scared id be a naff dad,well relationship got back to normal shes been on the pill fo nearly 20 years and come off it 6 mths ago,she wants to start trying next mth,theres no male pill i can secretly take,cant get the snip without her knowing help does anyone know of anything or can give me advice,i dont want kids,if i say this my marriage is over,i love my wife so much.

2006-09-19 22:36:39 · 51 answers · asked by jonas 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in Love with a gal, who is 8 yrs younger to me, even she loves me. Does age difference really matter or will it create problem in future?

2006-09-19 22:35:31 · 29 answers · asked by RajS 1 in Weddings

2006-09-19 22:35:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 22:32:44 · 14 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating

before, i believe that a guy should court a girl that he wants to be his gf but now, i realize that courtship is just for formality sake. a guy who courts always has his best foot forward and u will not know his real personality and attitude if he is courting for he always says the good things about him and he treats you nice just to win u.

2006-09-19 22:32:28 · 5 answers · asked by ok 4 in Singles & Dating

we have been seeing each other for some time. I knew he wasa engaged when we met but i decided to start the relationship. Things have changed for me, i want him for myself and its killing me because they communicate often and plan to get married in December. Please help!

2006-09-19 22:32:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what all it include

2006-09-19 22:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am a mum of a 2yr old girl with big job in London. We are thinking of moving to gorgeous but slightly remote cottage in Cornwall. Husbadn will have to travel to work... Any tips?

2006-09-19 22:28:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, to all the girls out there, would you slap my face till it turns red if I ask u to ??

Would love to hear ur replies (and if u r interested to slap, and u live in the UAE then contact me :P)

2006-09-19 22:27:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THE DARK SIDE OF LIFE SAYS, "You must pick one."

a) feed the remains to your dog

b) have your child stuffed by a taxidermist

c) leave your child in his/her room and pretend they didn't die


PICK ONE!

2006-09-19 22:25:34 · 13 answers · asked by The dark side of life 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 22:24:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i don't love this guy but he's always there but there's one whom i love most but he's far apart... of course i wanted to be with the one i love. how can i be with him?

2006-09-19 22:23:44 · 11 answers · asked by honeyko_japan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy who can last if she knows how to get herself off and maybe head but does that affect the dominance roles? Does oral sex work to her feeling more empowered in control of her partner versus. imprinting the stimulus into her experience with you as a lover ?

2006-09-19 22:23:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating