we have been seeing each other for some time. I knew he wasa engaged when we met but i decided to start the relationship. Things have changed for me, i want him for myself and its killing me because they communicate often and plan to get married in December. Please help!
2006-09-19 22:32:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is the problem because he is giving me hope by introducing me to his relatives and all his friends and he keeps on flaunting me and doing all these things for me...I am only human, i have fallen for the guy
2006-09-19 22:59:35 · update #1
forget it you are a wrecker, someday some body will do it to you.
2006-09-19 22:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
moral of the story - its the "bits on the side" that always end up hurting - and it serves you right. You were aware of his situation when you got involved - it should have stopped you right away when you knew he had a fiancee - but obviously it didnt - and now whilst hes enjoying the excitement of his upcoming wedding to his lovely fiancee - and likewise enjoying casual fun with you - its you thats left upset and sad.
I have no sympathy for a relationship wrecker like you - could you not have found yourself a single man- maybe then you'd be the one getting married in December.
2006-09-20 05:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid here. He has no intentions of leaving his fiancee. Have some self respect & leave him. Why did you get involved with someone who is in a serious relationship? I beleive women who do that have self worth issues & they do it mainly because they want validation that they are "better" than the other woman. The truth of the fact is, your not. You are just his "bit on the side" & I pity his fiancee. If I were you I would warn her that she is in for a lifetime of a cheating spouse so she can get out of it while she can.
Next time, go for someone who is single.
2006-09-20 05:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cori 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you was my friend I would say...How can you trust someone who is having an affair?? How can you allow yourself to fall for someone who is otherwise attached to someone else. You should really reconsider your position, how can you make plans with someone that is about to get married. In the mean time enjoy the sex and find someone else, who isn't
2006-09-20 05:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by johnnymifo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you genuinely love him, you will want what's best for him.
If you want what's best for him, you will get the heck out of his life.
If you do somehow manage to break up his relationship with his fiancee, he will never forgive you. It'll destroy your relationship with him, so what would be the point? You should stop seeing this guy now, wish him the best, and go find yourself someone who isn't attached to another woman!
2006-09-20 05:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Ruth but this man does not belong to you, lets say he was on loan, this was obviously just an affair to this man and you entered into this relationship knowing it was a temporary thing, let things be unless he tells you otherwise.
2006-09-20 05:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well look at it this way, if he cheated on his soon to be wife, he lacks moral integrity and honesty which are the building blocks of any type of healthy relationship. His fiance and you need to ditch him. Any type of relationship based on betrayal will never work.
2006-09-20 05:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. If you wanted you he would not be marrying this other woman. It sounds like he is sleeping with you because he isn't getting it from her when they apart. Find yourself a nice man who will love you and only you.
2006-09-20 05:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Emmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry to be so blunt but you have got what you deserve, you obviously knew he was engaged when you first met him, so you should not have gone there, so now you are paying the price for being THE OTHER WOMAN get over it
2006-09-23 11:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, but if you lose out you only have yourself to blame as you went into the relationship knowing the situation!
2006-09-20 06:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men usually need a sex, once he is away from his station he put on hopes to several women and enjoy the life, with little difference same is situation of the women, (different in various countries)
2006-09-20 06:57:38 · answer #11 · answered by afzalbrohi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋