2006-09-19 22:50:43 · 14 answers · asked by Josh r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's just not worth the trouble and pain it causes.
2006-09-19 22:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that we think that it's exciting when we first put ourselves into this situation and it honestly can be, you know, it's something new and different and you can kinda get those butterfly feelings back when you embark on this journey. However, all that excitement comes to a complete stop when the cheating is discovered by your current loved one. I think that you are very right about there are many in this world and I guess that if you don't really love the person your with then the fact that the affair may get discovered doesn't really matter but if you do really love the person your with then it's just not worth any amount of excitement and it's something that you can never take back regardless of what you do. As you can see I'm speaking from experience on this one. Hope this answers your question a bit, as I have really rambled. As for the guy a few comments back, grow up, this person is asking a simple question, if you didn't like it then you should have not answered the question at all.
2006-09-19 23:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is exciting, but definitely not a good idea. The consequences of being caught definitely outweighs the excitement you feel when you are having the affair.
2006-09-19 22:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by kay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't think it'll be nice. People have affairs because they are self centred. Always remember that your partner isn't the only victim when you have an affair. Your children will suffer too.
2006-09-19 23:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its exciting and thats why we're into it. something wanting but not easy to have. its emotionally exciting than physical as it nothing but normal and good only as it lasts.
wanting it but not able to have it readily? waiting for the time to come, having it and waiting for the next. the waiting game and emotional feelings are exciting.
but the excitiment is good only while it lasts and no good end to it. emotional turmoil and the trouble it brings is not worth it if a marriage is involved. it also takes a very special understanding to be discreet and in control. commitment to each another dont really last and soon it dies out for lust and excitment is more than personal feelings.
for those who have not started dont! for its addictive and shows our weakness emotionally and easy prey to lust.
exciting as it maybe but bad intentions and criminal intentions may show its ugly side...such as "extortion" for deeper commitment and other acts against our moral values! a "trap" sometimes too deep to escape and easy to get involved.
good luck to thoese who dare to challenge it.
2006-09-20 13:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be exciting at first,but not in the long run,the best thing is yet to come up clear and clean and get a divorce,before embark in one.to avoid tragedies,from some narrow minded mentalities
2006-09-20 02:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by brasil_mulher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES its exciting, new and different and forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest too, its like a drug, yea a drug that makes you ill when you wake up.
2006-09-19 23:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people should stay on their feets, affairs always played in the air, you want to be flown, sorry cant help you, letus see how much you are blown, just imform me when you come down
2006-09-20 00:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by afzalbrohi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How exciting would you think it was if you were the one being cheated on?
2006-09-19 23:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as YOU don't really think of having one it's ok, but don't actually do it, too many lives hurt and involved. Have a clean life
2006-09-19 22:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think only selfish people will think of doing that. People who just think as long as he/she is happy even for a moment without thinking the hurt he/she bring to his/her loved ones.
Are you the selfish one?
2006-09-19 23:08:48 · answer #11 · answered by joy_chia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋