I am in Love with a gal, who is 8 yrs younger to me, even she loves me. Does age difference really matter or will it create problem in future?
2006-09-19 22:35:31 · 29 answers · asked by RajS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
age is but a number...look at the maturity levels of both of u..if u are on the same wave lenght go for it no reason not to
2006-09-19 22:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think 8 years is that big of a difference, but part of that depends on what age you both are right now. If she's 18-21 and you're 26-29, then she may still be growing into herself and may be doing a lot of changing in the next few years and might end up being a totally different person 3 or 4 years into the marriage. But if she's done growing up, I don't really see any potential problems. It does seem that women tend to want all those things like marriage and children sooner than men, so I think it's usually better when the guy is older.
2006-09-20 01:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by squirellywrath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In real love there is no question of age difference, if its 5 or 10 or 15 they can live happily together. If she also accept this, why why you take this as a matter. If you both really bothering about this much more, then its better to drop this proposal here itself. Other wise it may create problem in future, not now. If you both agreed mutually, dont keep this matter in your mind, and go ahead.
Best of luck
2006-09-19 22:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by lovingneighbour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the actual ages. For example....8 years is too much for an 18 and a 26 year old, but it's fine for a 30 and 38 year old. That's my opinion anyway. A lot of people say age doesn't matter and maybe to some people it doesn't, but to me it does.
2006-09-19 22:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
5 or 7 yrs it can b 8 yrs also age does not matter it depends on how much u love the person
2006-09-19 23:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age might be a problem if someone wanted kids and the other was past that point in time, but it seems that this is not the matter for you. Love is Blind, they say, so Love is all that matters and it's what keeps everyone together for the long run anyway. So don't worry and enjoy life. ; )
2006-09-19 22:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Cosmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference should be only 1 or 2 years bcoz it causes damages to sex when u have one.
Better marry a girl who is just 1 or 2 years younger than u.
2006-09-19 23:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by Yashna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age difference of 2 to 3 years is perfect
2006-09-19 22:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by pabab 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age difference doesnt matter if opinions are same.Otherwise 8 years is quite a difference.I think ideal age difference should be2-3 years.
2006-09-19 23:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go a head to love her so much.............
If you are ever going to love her, Love her now.
While you can know that the sweet and tender feelings
which from true affection flow., love her now.
While you are living, do not wait until she's gone, and then have it chiseled in marble,
Sweet words on ice-cold stone, If you have tender thoughts of her
Please tell her now. If you wait until she is sleeping never to awaken, there will be death between you and her and you won't hear her then.
So , if you love her , even a little bit. Let you know it while she is living. So you can treasure it.
2006-09-19 22:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is not a problem if she loves u very much.Because the difference between me and my husband is 10 years we are having a enjoyable life and we have a kid too.
2006-09-19 22:42:34 · answer #11 · answered by valu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋