2006-09-19 22:32:44 · 14 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They do this because they feel the have to or they are supposed to. In this way, they give up control of their own lives to what they feel is expected of them. Others do it because they have felt that this was the right time for them and they keep control of when, how, where, etc. Only you can say when the time is right. Don't be afraid of it because it is a wonderful human experience. But be true to your own values. You are a wise young woman and you will make good choices in your life. Don't worry about what the next girl is doing, just focus on being the happiest and smartest person you can be in your own life.
2006-09-19 22:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hate to show my age, but I'm 52, and let me say that I am proud of you. You're using that brain of yours. In my day, kissing was far removed from sex. Nowadays, it seems that sex is almost a prerequisite to kissing or holding hands. It's like "let's get this sex thing out of the way so we can concentrate on having a relationship". Please don't fall into that trap. Sex is great, it's wonderful, and it should also be reserved for your husband. That's when it will feel completely right.
2006-09-19 22:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have often wondered the same thing myself. Giving yourself time to get to know each other and grow together is the best activity before launching into kissing/sex because it makes it so much more worthwhile. But then with those kind of people, i guess it's all about the animal satisfaction and not a deep thing.
2006-09-19 22:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 07:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never rush into it. When I get intimate, it's ALWAYS completely right, whether it takes a month, a week, a day, or an hour. Some people just know what they want and others don't.
2006-09-19 22:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess social and peer pressure.
If most of your friends are doing it and all the characters in the movies are jumping into bed before they know each other's names - it just seems the normal thing to do.
2006-09-19 23:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lee S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are only looking for sexual gratification, not some kind of soulmate-connection kind of thing. It would probably be better to wait if its a lasting relationship they are looking for.
2006-09-19 22:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people like you have to wait for a "special" time just to have sex? To me, you're weird.
2006-09-19 23:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are lusting with one another not considering a long term involvement.
2006-09-19 22:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have forgotten how to differentiate between completely right and partially right
2006-09-19 22:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋