i love someone..since 2 years ,but i m unable to marry him due to family....our caste is different
2006-09-19 22:50:25 · 23 answers · asked by ruchi j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
its natural to feel sad and depressed when u love someone and cant marry him...but its no reason to end one's life...it just means that u havnt been lucky in love...ending one's llife over anything means u dont respect ur life !! and thats not good...
its better that u join some hobby classes or something...to get ur mind over her...
all the best dear...
2006-09-19 22:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by v v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ending a life is difficult.i have tried it more than a couple of times and never met success.about loosing someone , we loose people everyday it is not a big deal.nowadays with computers and gadgets life has become too fast so moving out from one relationship into another is also quite fast.i guess you are not alone there are a good percentage who cannot marry for several reasons.they all do not end their life.some have to continue.its really your wish whether to continue or end it up here.you end up here then also its not a big deal you will be forgotten with time.you can in the mean time concentrate on your career and look what you can do with it.people come and go but profession ultimately stays with you as your best dear friend.marry your profession that will give you less time to think about other ways which surely depend a lot on luck.
2006-09-19 23:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by sourajit n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for us to end our lives if we could not be with someone we love though we may sound like Romeo & Juliet story but when it comes to love nothing is too far and no want can separate the persons even their own parent.
In your case friend, I know living in India (I'm too from India, Shillong) the system which prevails in your society(Hindu) there is always differences in caste which hinder intercaste marriage. It will be very difficult for you especially if you are from high caste and the person is from low caste (pardon me) or vice versa, the family members are always against this.
You have been in love with this person for 2 years. You can think outside the box except suicide, this is rubbish and also shows you're coward to face the truth. Why you and your boyfriend stands on your own feet. Ask your boyfriend to be somebody in his life (like I.A.S etc) see your family members or his will readily accepts this and the feeling of caste different between yours family and his will slowly slowly alleviate to certain degree.
2006-09-19 23:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rijied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be living in rural India. And your parents are caste worms.
You both can run away and marry in a city if you have money and can support yourself. Also get help from friends.
in any case do not let your life to end. Both of you should steadfastly refuse to marry any one else. wait for some time and the parents will change their mind.
Good luck to both. Let us all know the happy ending and the wedding.
2006-09-20 16:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by cookiedada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just for d time bieng well but still there r better ways than ending ur life u can marry the guy u love if u prioritize the needs
if u really love this guy than try and convince ur parents
otherwise wit for the time it will act as a healer on its own
tk cr
2006-09-19 23:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by mayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself "" will you go against your parents who have given you LIFE ??
If parents wanted us to end up our lives they wud not give us birth at first point.
Its so easy for you to say you want to die just because you cant get married to someone you love?? You love him only from past 2 yrs but your parents love you since the time your mom came to know she's conceived.
I am not trying to hurt you., I do understand your feelings. But pls
stop talking like immatured people & live for your parents & live to the fullest, make them happy n smile always.
Never ever go against TIME, NATURE & DESTINY.If you are destined to get something, you will get it. If not, you dont have to end up life,,there will be something better coming up ...jus wait n watch !!
2006-09-19 23:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a common problem every one face at this age....if life has to like that face it with courage....putting an end to ur life never changes or solves anything...whatever happens life has to go on...till the very end u still have lots to see,,feel for,,,,to enjoy in ur life love is not life...there's always something beyond everything...so get on with that ...wish u all success in ur life....i'll pray for u dear....
2006-09-22 06:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by CINDERELLA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even i m having the same problem in my life.
never go 4 a suicide,just wait n watch god will surely show u the right path.
may b some1 very special waiting 4 u on tht path,
just try 2 search tht special 1
2006-09-20 01:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are lacking all these facts....Life is only one, and its precious, we cant value it. We can shape amd mould our future to a good extent if we try. Some silly minds thinking that, life is very easy and everything in life will come our way on time. And some others are thinking like, they are the only one who suffering in this world, and all others are in heaven.
Which is the way you decided to end up your life ?
Let me know, I have some new ways to suggest with...
2006-09-19 23:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by lovingneighbour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because you think your life would not be worth without your beloved.But ending one's is a not a solution.It will only add to your families as well as your beloved's problem.
Get hold of yourself.Forget the past and move ahead in life.Somethings are just not in our control.
2006-09-19 23:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋