iam in lovewith my sister daughter since she born.both r love each other,now she get good personality and matured she refusing .but i dont want to leave her .how ican i express my problem to her. what should i do
2006-09-19 19:53:09 · 18 answers · asked by anil k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
wtf?
2006-09-19 19:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Oh, Natey-O! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My views may not be the same from yours since there will be culture differences. Am from Mauritius. And this just not happen here -the uncle/niece weddings etc
Let her go. You yourself said she's matured thus she knows what she want and it's not you. She doesn't want to be bound by these traditional thinkings. She's from the young generation. Keep your love aside and understand.
Besides, you can't force someone to love you. Probably out there her family will pressure her for marrying, try to support her.
2006-09-20 03:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your sister's daughter that means there will be a huge age diff between you? Are you from South India? There such marriages are common. But it has been understood that such marriages are not healthy. It is really not advised to marry within one's family. Find someone else of your age. Let her pursue her dreams. She must be finding you too old for her. And I don't blame her.
2006-09-20 03:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by MintyMint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Anil i think u r a Hindu and ur religion did not allows u to get this kind of relation or getting marry to ur sisters daughter. And that girl is mature so may be she respect her culture and knows the values of relations, after all u r her MAMA. Please don't think against ur culture or change ur religion be a Muslim or a christian.
2006-09-20 03:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by kajalb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I think since u say she is more mature obviously u should move on. Its not that U are less n she is more but I think its better if U both have same wavelengths n ideas bt life n stuff..So gudluck
2006-09-20 03:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by darkangel09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r a hindu.. n u should be ashamed of urself 4 even thinking somthing as disgusting as dat.. i guess u r far older than her.. n most of all u r her UNCLE.. So come back to ur senses.. or see ur self a doc.. n try to increase ur writing skills instead.. people like u should b........***********............
n wat do u mean wen u say" since she was born"?? r u d one of d "child abuser" types???
n by the way.. i was one d few who rated u as a bad question.. i hope i could rate even worse than dat.. :-\
2006-09-20 03:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt understand your question in the first place.
If you meant that you are in love with your sister's daughter, you need to grow up UNCLE
2006-09-20 03:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not discuss state forward because your sister is matured you are trying time to time hints than she was listen your problems and solved themselve.
2006-09-20 02:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Charli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are Hindu..then who will bring her at the place of wedding ceremony as our marriage custom?? U r her Mama
2006-09-21 14:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some help from a professional therapist your sick . and you disgust me and you will end up in prison if you don't seek help of some kind.the feelings you have are disgusting and immoral.
2006-09-20 03:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by tommysbabydoll@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can succed. u should first tell ur feelings.and make her to know the value of u and love.u to avoid her for few days .so that he can know value of u
2006-09-20 03:02:08 · answer #11 · answered by chaithu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋