Hey folks.Though i had troublesome past,i mean dad left me n mom, mom took to drinking.Now evrything is fine, mom is fine,i've gud job(though not grt), have a lovely boyfriend.me n my bf r of same age(25) Well! my bf loves me a lot, though we have diff. way of thinking.I'm sensitive, e is not at all sensitive(e cries only during tragic movie,i dont!!), e leads an independent life,i am kinda dependent on my loved ones.He wants to marry me wen we are in gud position(we wants both of us to earn 50k together b4 tying the knot),i too agree...now the probs is i'm over possessive of him, he has gud relationship with his colleague,females also,which i cant take.He says e is in service sector n e shud be nice to all...Some of them r his frienz also,they sms him,call..thats all.I trust him but i'm insecure.I hate all those girls who r close to him.Its not those girls r bad,its just i'm jealous....i've always been insecure in my life,i dunno wat to do? i luv him to death,i wanna change!
2006-09-19 19:55:31 · 11 answers · asked by simran v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just give him some space. Make friends with his friends and most imp trust him.
2006-09-19 21:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm an Indian too, understands the relations around.and on the top of that being a cancerian, i mean a sensitive chap, i understand ur situation well...sweety, trust me, i'm more or less like u, hate people around my loved ones but i know thats not right, give him his space and trust him, make sure he doesn't break ur heart or gonna ditch u....if u think u can rely on him for not being un true to u then plz let him live his life as well or u'll loose him in sometime....excess of evrything is bad...dont be too over possesive
2006-09-19 21:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by hektor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your feelings and concern , as per your past relation & fly history . Pl do practice and learn to be more positive in your thinking and allow him to breath moderately , I mean do take care of his needs but keep your mind open and make it a point never ever criticise him and argue with him , specially in fron of any third person . Also try to get marry now , you both can manage the life and progress will follow .
2006-09-19 20:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, People don't just runoff and have sex with the closest thing around. I used to be like you. Recently I couldn't go camping with my gf and she went anyway with about 10 of her male biker friends. She had a great time and we had fun laughing and talking all about it when she got back. We are stronger than ever now.
2006-09-19 20:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by geomoto 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rather than you i pity his situation, Relax dear trust him and if you want make his gf''s your friends then see the change in you.I bet you'll love being with them. I beleive that Guys and Gals of this age can be much faithful if they feel they are trusted by someone. and they may go to any point if they feel u doubt them.
2006-09-20 12:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by Muttama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..guess u need to give him some space..over possesiveness leads to broken relationship. Relax, if things are great between u then u dont have to worry.
2006-09-19 19:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by big b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is vary natural 2 b jelous.Cuz u have suffered ur past life a lot.
If u love ur bf and if ur bf also loves u then he is only urs.b a frind 2 ur bf's frnds d coleuges.U try 2 change ur possessiveness.
2006-09-19 22:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Shaily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change. COS no one can play ur role more than u
so..never change.b as u r.
2006-09-19 20:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friend with his friends
2006-09-19 23:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, it's kinda like that.
2006-09-19 19:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by jv637 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋