because I feel that it is less intrusive and so it doesn't seem that I'm forcing myself to her. I also don't want to bother her if she is busy. What do you think?
2006-09-19 18:59:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Text messaging lets you distance yourself from possible rejection. But as your relationship progresses, you will need to open yourself up to personal contact.
Texting also lets you think about what you're going to say before it actually comes out. It's a wonderful way to get to know each other, but be careful not to say things via text that you wouldn't say in person. Also, she can read them on her time.
2006-09-19 19:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird, and your explinations seem valid, but I personally don't like it when a guy texts me. Hopefully when ur texting her she doesn't have to pay extra for those messages, because that would really be inrusive now wouldn't it. Not all plans come with free texts. Anyway, most of the time not calling a girl is because of fear, you may not admitt to it now, but talking over the phone is so much more personable than texting, and you're probably more comfortable with texting because it's completely cut off from personable conversation. I wouldn't suggest it, I know a lot of girls who'd rather have a phone call than an impersonal text message.
2006-09-19 19:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is so much being weird than it is being too chicken to call and talk to her. Texting is so impersonal. Grow some balls and talk to her. Get some game and learn how to smooze a gal. Ladies love it when a guy calls them to hear the melodious sound of their voice.
2006-09-19 19:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's weird. I am a pretty shy person, and I prefer text messaging a guy rather than calling him as well.
2006-09-19 19:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is a lot better to just txt her. i agree that it is less intrusive and it does not make someone feel obligated to talk to you. i prefer it when people txt me.
2006-09-19 19:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well we are in the 21st century now, everybody are in to texting and it is much fun doing that than talking directly to that person, so why do you bother that much she'll understand that for sure!
2006-09-19 19:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welllll the guy i liked wud always text message and would hardly call afterawhile.....i like hearin my guys voicee and talkin to him late at night..its comforting....soo if she likes u baq u shud call her too....trust me ull get plus points!
gooood luck
2006-09-19 19:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Jonesy...she is usually right
2006-09-23 01:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by 0_0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its weird & lame
2006-09-19 19:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jonesy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
txting is good, some times I do it instead of calling too!
2006-09-19 19:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋