I have two men in my life. One who I have a long history with and a child. One whom I love with all my heart but we seem to have a lot of past issues to work through. And want so bad to get past our old conflicts. The second man is a good man with a lot of potential. He is nice and a little shy, but sometimes acts like a child. I feel close to him in a friendly way. I do not get the sparks I get with the first one. But with the second man we do not have to many conflicts. I also have a child with second one. I love both just in two very different ways. #1 guy, Is the type of love you feel electricity run through your veins. #2 guy is comfortable . So who do I choose. I have child whith each, and when I have sex with #1 its electric. But dont really have romantic attraction to #2. But he is still good man. I could be content and staedy with #2 or I could have the crazy passionate life with #2 help please???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
2006-09-19 18:51:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Choose guy #2..no doubt about it. You and your child will be happy in the long-term.
2006-09-19 19:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by peacelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will answer your own question, and probably already have. Sit down with a paper and pencil and write the good and bad of each. Look at it. When it's on paper, it's easier to see and realize what you are thinkilng. I personally would go with the sparks. Don't make the mistake of giving up sparks and fireworks because they may never develop with the other. Try the paper and pencil bit, and see what it tells you.
2006-09-19 19:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by misty_blue2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately for you i was here to help. Only in a certain aspect of the ? though. Dont f**k with these 2 guys dont let em fight and s**t cause then it wont matter who you pick there will always be anomosity every time they look at whatever scar they aquired for you.
2006-09-19 19:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by vito c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will your child feel about the first one? Do u think he will be a good father to her? I say go with the one who has more stability and longevity when it comes to commitment.
2006-09-19 18:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a 3 month time out. See whom you miss the most...and who stays around.
2006-09-19 19:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to paraphrase one of our great and wise women of our time, nice guys are like oatmeal, and exciting men are like pizza with dog turds on it. At first, you think you can eat around the turds, but eventually, you end up eating crap.
Hope that helps.
2006-09-19 18:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by cyphercube 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you have the child with.
2006-09-19 19:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by tootles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with man #1 you dont need to raise the other one.
2006-09-20 02:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 guy is the one you really love...#2 guy is just a good friend....Go with your heart...Go the healthy way...You know what you want!!!
2006-09-19 19:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confusing...make up your mind
2006-09-19 20:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋