Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

Okay well my boyfriend and I just got these new cell phones on a couples plan and our internet is free, Including our Msn Messenger. Un believable as it may sound its true. So few weeks go by and where having relationship problems. Everytime he ever wants to see my phone I give him the okay anwser there is nothing to hide so as time go on I want to see his phone he tells me no! and everytime I walk up to him to see whats going on with his phone he exits the screen and you can see what is behide the screen when its says are you sure you want to exit I caught him in the text service I asked him who he was texting and he said nobody . And it is so strange it make me feel deep down inside that he is guilty about something becasue he always accuses me of cheating, talking to other guys or talking to my babys dad and I never do I am very honest and open Now I need to know is he up to something Is he talking to other women Help me Im confused I even caugth him on a porn site (no rudness

2006-09-19 17:48:15 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how long does it take for your mate to turn you on?

2006-09-19 17:46:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with him for 3 years. I love him very much but we don't agree on politics. I know it doesn't sound serious, but politics are very important to me, especially my beliefs. I am even making a career out of it. The thing is, I am an immigrant. My parents came from South America when I was 8. He is anti-immigration. He doesn't "see me" as an "immigrant". He doesn't even notice when he puts immigrants down. I am proud of being who I am and I have no problem with it. He is very conservative (raised in Virginia) and I am very liberal (raised in South America and San Francisco). Is this something we can work through? I just feel like he will never understand life from my point of view. Any thoughts?

2006-09-19 17:46:47 · 14 answers · asked by Kristina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents think I'm too young,but I know I can handle being in a relationship.

2006-09-19 17:46:28 · 20 answers · asked by mexicananime06 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend whom i had been indebted for a year, last december, when we talked to the phone, she said that i don't have to pay it, and just think that she gave it for christmas gift to me. but now, she needs money also and i'm so shy that i can't help her 'coz i don't have the means... pls help!

2006-09-19 17:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by danieldenzel2 3 in Friends

In about a month my girlfriend and I will be traveling to Florida with my girlfriend's mother because she is getting married on the beach. I want to propose to my girlfriend while we are on this trip one night on the beach. However, I want this to be very special and creative. I mean VERY creative. I don't mean just walking on the beach and dropping on one knee. I need ideas very badly because I want to make this perfect. I want to do something so amazing that noone has ever done before. Please be serious with this as it is a very important question that will impact the rest of my life. How would you want your man to propose to you on the beach. Remember I am looking for creative ways! Thank you all!

2006-09-19 17:45:56 · 25 answers · asked by C. Hudgins 3 in Weddings

like std's.
and do u regret it like hell?
did u want it, or did he seduce u, or did u seduce him, etc?

2006-09-19 17:45:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before but the current guy i am with he gets it every time,and he makes sure i am always satisfied before he is is that a good thing,why would he do this i thought all guys wanted to do is get them selves off is he a keeper people??????????????

2006-09-19 17:45:08 · 17 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is so cute and Im not just saying that but she is very insecure. Her self esteem is very low. She has an ex boyfriend that just confuses her and any advice from mom isnt any advice at all if you know what I mean. I need to know how I can reach her. He is trying to come back into her life after dumping her upteen times. Saying he made a mistake and really misses her. The only time he does this is when she starts liking someone else. Please he has a hold on her how do I make her see him for what he is?

2006-09-19 17:44:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

besides the basics (eye contact, etc.) be creative! What is it a girl does that makes you like her?

2006-09-19 17:44:03 · 17 answers · asked by PinkWaves 2 in Singles & Dating

ok true story. I went out with a guy and quickly became suspicious that he might be gay. He shaves his legs and body and all that, but he's a swimmer so I took that in stride. well we made out a little after about 4 dates and it was nice, but then he mention in a later conversation that he liked things in his @$$. long story short we kind of drifted apart and then out of the blue he asked me if I would consider using "something" on him. how exactly would you have responded to this?

2006-09-19 17:42:18 · 23 answers · asked by Beeper 4 in Singles & Dating

Kiss on Lips / palm or somewhere else

2006-09-19 17:42:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-19 17:41:04 · 10 answers · asked by Jessicer 3 in Singles & Dating

is it a special feeling that you get or what do you feel,is it something u just know or do u feel it ......

2006-09-19 17:39:42 · 11 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

has been constantly over our house alot and every where we go he's there. It's like my husband has to divide his time between us and I don't like it. Am I overreacting about this?

2006-09-19 17:38:18 · 22 answers · asked by prettymama 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she's in hongkong today, to work as ofw... i miss her a lot... since grade 4, she left us to work abroad. when she came home and stayed for a year, i got my work in far place from them... unfortunately, we only meet once in a blue moon - this means once or twice in a year... and now... she's in hongkong... i only reach her by talking on the phone - if ever she calls, if she does not call, no talk... i really miss her a lot!

2006-09-19 17:37:36 · 15 answers · asked by danieldenzel2 3 in Family

The last time I did it my family was eating roasted duck, so I decided to let it rip, and boy did I. Angered my entire family.

2006-09-19 17:37:01 · 10 answers · asked by a a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend and I have been together over a year, i love her very much and tell her and show her this often, she affirms her love for me as often. just in the last month there have been some huge changes, a move, new careers, new abode. she got a new job she really loves and i am so very happy for her. and since the move it seems like our sex has tapered off from 5 times a week
to 1 or 2 times a week. i have tried to adjust myself to this and not bother her each time i go to bed sexually frustrated, and after a couple of less than overt snubs from her ive been finding myself upset and unable to sleep. I know that each relationship has its seasons and to expect sex each night is unreasonable, maybe im thinking about it too much. IDK there arent any indications that i need to be worried. should i be concerned?

2006-09-19 17:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by anthon02robe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello all!
In about a month my girlfriend and I will be traveling to Florida with my girlfriend's mother because she is getting married on the beach. I want to propose to my girlfriend while we are on this trip one night on the beach. However, I want this to be very special and creative. I mean VERY creative. I don't mean just walking on the beach and dropping on one knee. I need ideas very badly because I want to make this perfect. I want to do something so amazing that noone has ever done before. Please be serious with this as it is a very important question that will impact the rest of my life. Thank you all!

2006-09-19 17:36:23 · 27 answers · asked by C. Hudgins 3 in Weddings

is there anyone, you love with all your heart?

or just someone you can tell everything to?

2006-09-19 17:36:20 · 14 answers · asked by *Love is 1 Big Lie* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's always so quiet unless you find something he's interested in and he talks a bit more, but he barely talks and always seems kinda sad or shy...

Help he is really funny when you do talk!

2006-09-19 17:36:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my bf joke around alot, and we call each other all kinds of bad names like:b*tch , wh*re, c*nt, mother f*cker, and we even call each other racist names like he calls me a mongrel or a mutt or a n*gger(im multi racial 1/2 black, 1/4 native, 1/4 french) and I Call him a honkey or white devil, or peckerwood and guido(hes a white italian)

2006-09-19 17:35:22 · 7 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Singles & Dating

why does it always have to be the dude, adn dont jsut say, "cause guys are supposed to", give me somethin real

2006-09-19 17:34:47 · 22 answers · asked by fatalbert167 4 in Singles & Dating

I've had my bf for a month now. Though, what we've done has basically gab on the phone. Really never had a date. Just once hanging out at his house w his folks there (his nephew in the way), and running into him at a festival and sticking with him there. I ask this also because we became a couple the first day we met ( thur a friend). I don't know if its wrong or not. I have some feelings for him, but not full romance. I just wanna see him more. He lives only 20 mins. away. Though, neither of us got a car. Is this stupid, or is it just something happening now and has a chance of changing? Should we split, or just what and see what happens?

2006-09-19 17:33:00 · 5 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 17:31:39 · 33 answers · asked by Paul T 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy i just started hanging out with and im getting mixed signals. we have plans to hang out and i want to make a move but im not sure how since ive never been the one to initiate. hes shy and im shy but i decided to change this and make a move. i need guys opinions on this one! i dont want him for just hook up though. but what kind of approach would you want from a nice pretty girl? guys how would i go about this i never make the move haha.. btw i give everyone credit out there who does!

2006-09-19 17:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by narski123 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 17:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by dulla mae 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met him a week ago, and although I don't want to be bf/gf, I want to get to know him better. My heart jumps at the site of him (I've never been like this around a guy b4), and we both smile when our eyes meet. One of my friends even heard him say he wanted to meet me (b4 we met) so she introduced us. Problem: He's Chinese, I'm American. He's only here for a year. :(
What should I do.

2006-09-19 17:29:31 · 12 answers · asked by gemma gemma 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 17:28:58 · 6 answers · asked by ok 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help. My nerves are going and Im about to propose to my girl. I need an ideal proposal that I can do to really sweep her off her feet. Im so in love with her and she is so amazing. i juss love her and i want this to be amazing for her amazing for me. I feel I may cry during and I really need to control that urge bu I just love her and she's da one we all talk about she's thta girl and I never wanna live without her so females who think with their hearts...speak frm it.

2006-09-19 17:28:35 · 19 answers · asked by jusslisten 2 in Other - Family & Relationships