I like this guy i just started hanging out with and im getting mixed signals. we have plans to hang out and i want to make a move but im not sure how since ive never been the one to initiate. hes shy and im shy but i decided to change this and make a move. i need guys opinions on this one! i dont want him for just hook up though. but what kind of approach would you want from a nice pretty girl? guys how would i go about this i never make the move haha.. btw i give everyone credit out there who does!
2006-09-19 17:30:53 · 13 answers · asked by narski123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are shy you can do a lot with your eyes and your smile......and touch him a lot.....he should get the message..........
2006-09-19 17:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be so dense at times to not to understand us.. lol.. On a serious note... if the eye language has failed you then better get a bit physical. As i can see an accidental holding of hand is not gonna work in your case... you better do something like.. hold his hand and look deep in his eyes... words here may not be needed. If he is smart he will get the message... if he still doesn't.. then i think you must rethink on whether you actually want a "naive" guy !!!!???!!!!
2006-09-19 17:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a gal but i would also like to share my thoughts regarding your question. Honestly, ive been in the same situation when i was in college. The only difference between us is that im frank and i can do it in a funny way. The good thing is, by doing that i met the most wonderful and loving partner i ever had. Hes one of my classmates in my 2 subjects back then. He's really shy and a loner but mind you, he's cute and really with a kissable lips. I hang out with him together with my few friends, but i already told him straight that i like him, just like that. He took it as a joke because im the clown in the group but it didn't stop me from making him feel that i really, really like him. One time, we had a group dance and he's my partner (He's a good dancer, really sexy when he moves) I offered him my towel to dry he's sweaty face, then i told him something like, "you know what, i honestly like you not only as a friend, but i don't want you to think negatively about me. Im not expecting you to do anything , i just want to be honest with what i feel because im starting to feel uneasy when im with you". Then i walked out, hoping he would not get me wrong by doing that. I don't want him to think that im such an easy to get girl because im really not like that. Im just being honest. After a week, he came up to me, showing me the cutest smile i ever seen in my whole life (!) she told me that im so brave and i really got into his nerve. hahaha. We've been together since then, a very wholesome relationship. We celebrated our 5th year anniversary last aug. 15. He never forget to thank me for being frank and honest with my feelings!
Hope this can give you some enlightenment. Goodluck!
2006-09-19 17:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bartypurple lass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just tell him or try to make physical contact such as grabing his hands. say nice things to him like compliments, or you could give him a kiss. Its all up to you! Just make sure you dont go to far. Any guy will inmediately know when a girl is interested in him if you do these things.
Good luck
2006-09-19 17:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Walt88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something simple like hold his hand, or put your arm around him. He'll get the message ASAP.
(But be ready to take the initiative in other parts of the relationship- he's a follower.)
2006-09-19 17:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like wit. So be creative on this one. Hints don't work unless they are some clever way. Gestures will not work because I think they are misinterpreted as only "flirting". I don't know the right answer, maybe just tell him that you like him?
Good luck!
2006-09-19 17:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 07:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab the upper inside of his thigh and see how he reacts. If he gets really nervous, perhaps turns red, or something like that, then he's into you. If he just shrugs it off, then you'd better try your luck with someone else.
2006-09-19 17:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Fish Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. We love when a girl/woman show's the daring to do what we have to do all the time, no matter how shy we are. God Bless you.
2006-09-19 17:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know if he likes you because he will act wierd and say stupid things to attract your attention and he might show off. but to make a move, it's usually the guys that make a move fisrt.
2006-09-19 17:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋