Me and my bf joke around alot, and we call each other all kinds of bad names like:b*tch , wh*re, c*nt, mother f*cker, and we even call each other racist names like he calls me a mongrel or a mutt or a n*gger(im multi racial 1/2 black, 1/4 native, 1/4 french) and I Call him a honkey or white devil, or peckerwood and guido(hes a white italian)
2006-09-19 17:35:22 · 7 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we arent serious when we say these things but could it take a bad toll on us?
2006-09-19 17:35:50 · update #1
No I don't think so, as long as you both know that each other are joking & you find it funny. Other people around you may not realise you are joking & take offense. As long as you discuss that if either of you start to find it offensive to let each other know.
2006-09-19 17:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
While it's all fun and games, it's not likely to do any lasting harm, but the first time one of you says something like that while the other is in an off mood, you could quickly crash and burn. Even in jest, one side or the other may eventually tire of hearing it (a week, a month, a year or so from now) before the other one does, and neither of you will ever see the blow-up coming.
2006-09-20 00:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know each other is joking around I suppose it is OK. But beware that if you do it too much, you will become insensitve and might inadvertanly use such derrogatory remarks on others. Do tone it down a bit though.
2006-09-20 00:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two are ok with this, then who cares? Me and my hubby always call each other names and pick on each other when we are alone. Actually, so do me and a female friend of mine. It's fine if it's not done to be hurtful and all parties are ok with it.
2006-09-20 00:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THINK THAT SOMETHING TO BE JOKING AROUND
WITH, THAT TOTAL DISRESPECTFULLY TO DOING THIS
AND YOU THINK THIS OK. IT NOT. AND IF YOU REALLY
THINK ABOUT THIS WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE
CALLED OUT OF YOUR NAME. FOR A MAN TO SAY HE'LOVE
YOU AND THEN TURN AROUND AND CALL YOU A *****.
THAT NOT GOOD. AS A WOMEN HOW CAN YOU ALLOW
A MAN TO TREAT YOU LIKE THAT.
2006-09-20 00:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt think so as long as its not being said hurtfull me and my wife did that alot,b4 we lost our connection after that we didnt talk much
2006-09-20 00:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by eddie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF?. Why would you stay with someone who calls you a c*nt?
What's funny about degrading each other with bad names? That's disgusting.
2006-09-20 00:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋