Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

I am 20 years old and I never had a girlfriend. There were some girls as friends, but not as girlfriends. I know I look good, because a lot of times girls actually come and start talking to me and I dunno what to talk about, so I usually talk about thing that I know most-politics and current world events :), which I guess is a turnoff to them and they quickly walk away.I dunno what can be more exiting to talk about than global warming..lol jk I lack confidence to talk to a girl, because of fear of rejection. Do you think I can still change my personality?

2006-09-19 17:05:32 · 17 answers · asked by Nice man 5 in Singles & Dating

My first love who I still love very much is getting out of prison in a few weeks. He has been in there for 5 years over burgulary. I have been writing him and getting close to him again for awhile now. He says he has changed and still loves me and wants to get back together when he gets out. He was very young, 18 years old when he got into trouble and made mistakes but I do still love him and would love to be back with him but with his history, i dont know if that would be a good idea or not. People change and i know everyone deserves a second chance but i am really confused and would like some advice on what I should do. My family hates him because of things he has done and that also bothers me because i care alot on what my family thinks. Please help, if you were me, what would you do? Should i give him a second chance and start over? Thank you for your help

2006-09-19 17:03:25 · 22 answers · asked by kristen e 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 17:03:25 · 1 answers · asked by mirna7936@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday, i was in my office, and going homw for lunch break for an hour, my colleague asked me to get some sweets for her, from home as her mouth was tasting bad. I said ok, and came back after an hour with sweets, gave them to her. she tasted them and kept aside. in the mean time i asked whether she liked the sweets or not. but in the evening, when we were about to leave, she asked me "shall i give this to Jitender(our office boy)" i was a bit disturbed and just nodded my head. She asked me to give, I said you go ahead. That's all.. I wsa very much hurt with her behavior, i felt very bad of this. tell me how should I behave with such a kind of lady. I am a hyderabadi, she is a delhite.

2006-09-19 17:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by MADDY 3 in Friends

What was the worst feeling you ever felt and what caused it?

2006-09-19 17:02:19 · 24 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies can you help me figure out what is wrong? I am 23 5'9" 160lbs in good shape and have a nice tan. I have brown hair, green eyes, and dress very neatly. The problem is I am getting a divorce and now I am moving on. I go out with friends on the weekend to different clubs and it seems as if there is no women that check me out. When my wife and I were together and we would go out I would have women come up to me all the time and likewise for her (men). I have never had a problem meeting new women in the past but now I it seems as if I have it rock bottom. I am a very nice looking guy (not to boast) but I know that there are other guys out there that look better. What is the problem? I treat women like they should be treated and not like a piece of a.s.s. Got any tips or advice? I am not desprite to find somebody but I would like to find someone so that we could start off as friends and see where it goes.

2006-09-19 17:01:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 17:01:47 · 6 answers · asked by octanetwenty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were in a relationship with the father who has been there the whole time with you and the children. How would you handle the situation? The children are 3, 2, and 9 months. Very smart, beautiful children.

2006-09-19 17:01:22 · 20 answers · asked by LaJoya S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

technically, if her hymen is already mostly torn somehow (non-sexual) & he may not know anyway.. or would that make it worse or create false expectations (keep in mind it's only a friend from uni that's not all that experienced really) what if she just doesn't want to make a big deal out of it? why or why not?

2006-09-19 16:59:44 · 19 answers · asked by pinoro 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 16:58:49 · 32 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

Im not sure if this is appropriate for yahoo answers but is 6-7 inches for a 17 year old too small for girls my age? Is this average for a male or too small?

2006-09-19 16:58:42 · 15 answers · asked by TT M 1 in Singles & Dating

Single Or Married? Why? Wuld u want kids agian? If marriage didt give security, would you rather be single?

2006-09-19 16:57:15 · 22 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

A cashier at a local convenience store did that to me this evening. But, given the fact that she was wearing a big ol' rock on her ring finger, I really don't see what, if anything, it could mean. Anybody have an idea about this?

2006-09-19 16:56:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to , oyu people out there wo say get over it move on and that sort of stuff pleas save your words for someone else ,cuz you know what i get anough of that at home from the people i know .now this is why i ask the ? well my family got hurt well the hole story is relly bad and there was another famly who's famly was invovled and well now . now that famly hates my famly for a huuge misunderstanding and for somthing somebody did who is in our famly by birth , but out beacuze of his coices ! and no i am losing my bf and the people who are like bros.to me and one of them i maby like i don't know life is just scrued up ! pleasdon't be mean to me ihave my famly who bad mouths the other famliy ( sertin peopel in my famly ) and i know some words may be spelled rong forgive me i an dislexic and i can't spell so u wan't 2 b mean save it for someone who cares .

2006-09-19 16:56:11 · 3 answers · asked by kathryn j 2 in Family

When i told him at first he ran off, god knows where, for 2 weeks. Then he called and apoligized and said it wouldnt happen again, he just got scared. Now he is telling me that he dont know what he wants, and regardless of what he wants i am going into my 3rd month of pregnancy. I need some advise, im so scared right now.

2006-09-19 16:55:23 · 36 answers · asked by thinjupiter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 16:52:42 · 13 answers · asked by Gina Marie :] 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 16:51:08 · 4 answers · asked by jonathanglidden 1 in Singles & Dating

is it "alrighty" or "alrighdy" which means "alright" ?

2006-09-19 16:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am moving in with my boyfriend.... in about 2 weeks, I would really like to do something special for him and also get him a perfect gift so I need great ideas And not just things like sex on the floor , something that is really GREAT

2006-09-19 16:50:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 16:49:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've had a guy try to rape me about five years ago. I'm finally getting over it and moving on. WhenI meet a guy, would it be better to hide it until later (as in a year or two) or tell him within the first month or two? please. I need help.

2006-09-19 16:49:35 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My Ex-Girlfriend and I broke up 2 months ago cause of a long distance relationship. Prior to that we broke 4 or 5 times( in a four year span) cause I did something stupid. And usually I'll go back on my hands and knees begging her back. But the last time we were face to face we didnt argue or fight. Everything was good except she said she wanted me closer to her we talked about marriage and starting a family. I miss her like crazy should I call her even though she has someone new? We havent had any contact in months. If I do call her what do I say?

2006-09-19 16:48:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What I am not understanding is why tell me the truth after all those months of lying to me. Then he asked me "Where do we go from here?" He said, he wanted to come home with me and that he knew that he broke that trust and that if it took the rest of his life to prove to me that I could once again trust him he would do that because he said he loved me. I would have never found out about any of these lies and I can't help but wonder if he told me because he was deploying to Iraq. I am so lost and I don't know what to believe anymore.

2006-09-19 16:48:28 · 18 answers · asked by Fallen Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me an easy way

2006-09-19 16:48:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, my divorced sister met up with her old boyfriend. he is getting a divorce, lives in another state and has talked my sister into going with him on the road driving a tractor trailer. Told her he will pay off her house, give her kids 50.00 a week, and give her 500.00 a week, in return for a place to stay when he is home from off the road. She will be starting with him on the road in January, home for maybe 4 days, on the road maybe 14 days. The real kicker is: She has 3 kids. 15, 16 and 18. What do you think of all this? Is she wrong to leave her kids? I feel that she is. Oh, he did tell her if she wanted to she could stay home and he will send her money every week. Just want to know others thoughts on this.

2006-09-19 16:47:27 · 20 answers · asked by zoe 3 in Family

2006-09-19 16:47:03 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 16:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by Melosh 2 in Singles & Dating

Well it just seems that way. I mean It always seems like the bad boys are attracted to good girls. I mean I'm one of those super goody good girls and it seems like the only guys that like me are the bad ones.Its weird

2006-09-19 16:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated a guy that I met on line for 9ish months and, after numerous lies, I found out he is very married with two children and broke it off. To this day, he continues to deny being married (although he just bought a new house with his wife).

Although I am not a vindictive nor revengeful, and hope that someday he'll be able to work things out with his family, I am wondering whether I should call and tell his wife that he has an ad posted on a personals site and marked as single? I spoke to a few people whose spouses left for someone else, and they all said that they wish someone told them earlier.

My heart would break to have to call her to tell her this, however, I can't help but think how this selfish act hurts his family.

2006-09-19 16:46:26 · 38 answers · asked by FunInTheSun 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 16:45:47 · 9 answers · asked by Walt88 2 in Singles & Dating