Single Or Married? Why? Wuld u want kids agian? If marriage didt give security, would you rather be single?
2006-09-19 16:57:15 · 22 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married life and Single life both have their pros and cons..
Id much rather be married though.. so yes id do it all over again.. the good and the bad, because the good out weighs the bad every time.. When i was single i seemed to make more mistakes in my life then as a married woman.. when ur single u do what u want , when u want, and at times that leads to trouble, or putting urself in a bad situation ..and your alone.. when ur married.. u enjoy the good and the bad with someone and they hold u up when u feel like u cant hold urself up any longer, they support u and make u believe in yourself.. And if u find the right partner to share ur life with.. they love u for who u are, and now who they can make u into .. they love u inside and out.. and its not a temporary love, its a love that lasts forever.. and its not a chore.. its something that comes easily.. real love is what those old people have that u see still kissing each other in public and holding hands.. real love isnt something u put up with just cause u said u would.. real love is a love u cant live without.. and the love that u have for each other, keeps u in check.. because when u really love someone, they are in the back of ur mind always, and they are what keep u from screwing up because when u really love someone, u'll do all that it takes to keep from hurting that person.. or disrespecting that person.. .
Would i want kids.. MOST DEFINATELY.. they are what hold me together....I may not be a perfect mom but i do my best.. and i love them with all my heart.. i have never "NEEDED" 3 people so much as i "NEED" them.. they are what keep me grounded, they are what keep me in line. they are what gives me courage to face the world every day.. and although people say Parents are what make their kids into what they are today.. My kids are what make me who i am.. i had them very young in my life, ive been a parent since i was 18 years old.. and my oldest son has grown up with me in many ways.. And he has a smile that can take u from the worst of moods into the best of moods.. and he always knows what to say to brighten up your day.. my middle son is like an angel from heaven.. he is chronically/terminally ill and he is also deaf, and he has made me see how precious life is , and how strong i really i am and he has this glow about him that he seems to touch everyones lives he comes in contact with.. My youngest , my daughter.. shes got the kindest heart.. and gentlest big brown eyes.. she's so smart, and she wants to take care of everyone.. always worried about everyone elses feelings..
So No i wouldnt change a thing, my life although far from perfect.. wouldnt be what it is today with out them.. and id rather die then live my life with out them... so i like my life just fine the way it is..
2006-09-19 17:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Single
2006-09-19 18:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 11 months and 3 weeks ago. Certainly isn't what I thought it would be. Wife seems to think she is a Princess and nags all the time about stuff I have no control over. She wouldn't think of taking the trash out blah blah blah. I am not happy BUT, I would get married again obviously not to this one but I'm sure if the right woman came along then I would.
2006-09-19 18:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would marriy him all over again well i did just that on our 25th anniversary we got married when i was 18 and we just had our 28 ann. i love my husband and our 3 sons who are now 26 25 22 i love our 2 grandsons and yes even my two daugter in laws they are all what makes life worth getting up in the morning my husband is gentle and i dont think i would like living alone i would not do well i would have to open my house to unwed moms or something we dont have riches of the world but we have each other and no money could ever take the place of our marriage and love 4 one another MARRIED IS THE BEST THANK YOU GOD!
2006-09-19 17:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I have to do it over again i would stay single. If I know then what at I know now I would have went to college, secure my future financially and travel the world.
Kids can come later and marriage. Nowadays you can have a test tube baby if you want as long as you have the money. You do not need to be marriage to have kids.
2006-09-19 17:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be married most days of course there are some days i think everyone wishes they were single would i have my kids knowing them now yes but if i had it to do all over again i am not sure i would had them so soon in life..
2006-09-19 17:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sept 16 made 30 yrs of marriage.. i married at 18... am now 48....... only thing I would change would be to wait till older i think..... had kids right away and close together, 3 in 3 years !!! rofl...... would prob have them further apart, dont know, it was kinds nice just the way it was tho....... they are realy close friends.... i LOVE being married , it is not always fun and nice but still over all, I would do it all over again with him...... God bless
2006-09-19 17:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it agian I love my husband and my son. But we did think it over a long time before getting married we were together for 8years before getting married.
2006-09-19 17:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by Heather P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is amazingly little non secular priority for divorce in Hinduism. in spite of if, in India, he might in all probability visit penitentiary for doing something like that. If he does divorce his spouse, and his spouse isn't earning any money, then he will ought to pay spousal, and in all probability newborn help to boot. In india, If he turns into muslim, then the comparable divorce rules prepare. in spite of if, he would be allowed as much as 4 different halves. Im unsure if the 1st spouse will ought to legally consent to the added different halves although. Im unsure how Islamic regulation works in india. i'm hindu.
2016-10-15 04:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd still choose to be married. There is something indescribable about sharing life with your companion and having the same history.
2006-09-19 17:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋