My Ex-Girlfriend and I broke up 2 months ago cause of a long distance relationship. Prior to that we broke 4 or 5 times( in a four year span) cause I did something stupid. And usually I'll go back on my hands and knees begging her back. But the last time we were face to face we didnt argue or fight. Everything was good except she said she wanted me closer to her we talked about marriage and starting a family. I miss her like crazy should I call her even though she has someone new? We havent had any contact in months. If I do call her what do I say?
2006-09-19 16:48:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you havent had contact in months why go back now. you have left it too long. i think you should move on as she has.
2006-09-19 16:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and say whats up. Ask her how her boyfriend is and blah blah blah. You know small talk. Then all of a sudden get serious and tell her what you really called her for. Say that u really think about her alot and from a mature point of view u think it would best to setlle this, becuase u wanna make sure how everthing stands with y'all. Say what you gotta say then, its her turn. In the end she'll aprreciate that you called to talk about it.
2006-09-20 00:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by badmab07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it be. You 2 havent gotten it to work yet your not going too. You can lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink. If you 2 really loved each other it would of never gotten this bad. Dont travel the same dead end path twice. Try new avenues.
2006-09-19 23:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF u call her just ask her how she is..... talk as friends and see where it goes..... make it short and sweet and then get off the phone..... no pressure !!!! then wait for her to make the next move..... you do NOT want to step on toes by being to forward if she is in another relationship....... God bless
2006-09-19 23:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call and just say that she was on your mind and that you wanted to give her a call to make sure she is doing ok. I hope things work out for you
2006-09-19 23:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel, and even tho you are still inlove with this lady, i say back off, for she has moved on. your best bet is to find someone new
2006-09-19 23:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by angie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋