Me and my ex broke up a year and a half ago when I moved to college because he could not handle the long distance. We havve continued to stay friends and both still have strong emotions for each other. He just said we are both living seperate lives and it was too hard for him. He calls me about every two weeks and we see each other now and then. This has been going on for a year and a half now and I realized recently that it needs to stop because its holding me back from other relationships. He tells me he likes to talk to me, I still mean a lot to him....etc. So I decided that I wouldn't answer his calls and he kept on calling and calling. When I finally called him back after he called three days in a row.. he told me the same old thing..want to see how ur doing etc. IF thats all he wanted why did he call three days in a row? GUYS..if he really wanted me back wouldnt he say so ? he is e
2006-09-19 19:06:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's over, and it seems like it is, TELL HIM.
He'll move on.
2006-09-19 19:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He particularly quite loves you, it is obvious and needs you again, you both have the equal feeling and will have to do some thing about it, either get back collectively, you've robust emotions for him, and so does he, if he called you three days in a row like that, it method he is going crazy, plain and easy!!! He thinks about you too at all times, simply get back together. You'll be pleased, (I suppose)
2016-08-09 14:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by fontagne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he has you when he wants. Your his security, you are there when he needs you...no matter if its to talk or to sleep with. Whatever the circumstance is he can just go to you when he wants and leave you alone when he wants. When you didn't answer his call it kinda through him off for a second cause you always were there like his beckon call. i think you need to just ask him what he wants...if he wants to be with you or does he just want a fling because your interested in getting into a relationship now with or without him. It is a game that you have let him play for a while and your tired of it....
2006-09-20 11:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by kikosgirl83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He rather rather loves you, it is seen and desires you again, you each have the equal feeling and must do whatever approximately it, both get again in combination, you may have robust emotions for him, and so does he, if he known as you three days in a row like that, it method he's going CRAZY, Plain and sensible!!! He thinks approximately you too always, simply get again in combination. You'll be blissful, (I believe)
2016-08-21 07:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he`s afraid to tell you he loves you, he might be jealous. It sounds like he really cares for you alot. After all that time apart, he`s still there, that says alot about his feelings for you. Ask him to open up to you and tell you his true feelings, back him into a corner. There is a saying," If you love something let it go, if it comes back, love it forever. Don`t hide your true feelings for him when you talk, the truth is always best. Good luck, and God Bless.
2006-09-19 19:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Spiritled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He quite quite loves you, it extremely is obtrusive and needs you back, you the two have a similar feeling and could cope with it, the two come back at the same time, you have good emotions for him, and so does he, if he called you 3 days in a row like that, it ability he is going loopy, undeniable and straightforward!!! He thinks approximately you too continuously, purely come back at the same time. you would be happy, (i believe)
2016-10-17 07:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't admit that he made a mistake by saying he couldn't handle the long distance, now he's trying to save face and hope that you'll bring it up......
2006-09-19 19:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you back than that is just to bad. he is the one that could not handle the distance when you went to colege. personally i would just keep him as a friend, if he starts to act strange (ie. calling constintly) than you need to let him go completly.
2006-09-19 19:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"GUYS..if he really wanted me back wouldnt he say so ?" <<
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He's a big baby that needs to get a life of his own. Get rid of him now before he becomes dangerous.
2006-09-19 19:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does seem a bit insecure. Next time tell him your gonna write a letter. Tell him if he misses you to write.
2006-09-19 19:14:57 · answer #11 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋