I want to have an equal amount of free nights as my partner.
He works full time in sales from 9am to 5 pm, and take care of our 4 month old baby from 8:30 pm until bedtime. He helps take her a bath pretty much every night.
I encouraged him to go on a weekend vacation with his friends and asked for a night out by myself, in return.
Tonight, he went out to a friends birthday party at a bar and I wanted a night out in exchange, as well.
My aim is to get some equality in the time we get to spend out.
My boyfriend replied, "One night." And was so confident that I was asking too much by wanting to make my social life equal to his, that he told me to confide in my mother about it. He thought even she would agree with him that, " that's not how things work." Well, my mom thinks this is a red flag, and so do I.
What do this mean to you all?
2007-10-23
18:16:56
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