Every week my friend asks if they can borrow my computer. They have said that they will buy their own computer if they can find one that's cheap. They don't NEED to borrow it, it's just something that makes their note taking a little easier. What frustrates me is that they now expect me to lend it over to them (ie. not even asking, just stating they need it) and when I tell them I don't feel comfortable/like lending it out, they get upset and tell me they don't like it either. Also, once when they borrowed it, I really needed it back by a certain time and when I told them that, they said ok. But came back with it late! I have looked online and noticed that there are some cheaper laptops out there, but I still feel guilty for not wanting to let someone borrow my computer constantly. It's not so much the borrowing, but the person's attitude? Am I wrong in not wanting to lend out my computer? Am I being too sensitive?
2007-09-23
05:37:38
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sosokitty
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