I've been married to a woman I truly do love and cherish for about a year now. On a recent business outing I did something, extracuricular that I am regretting now. I had sex with a man. I'm not gay, I was simply curious and exploring my boundaries but I can't even justify it to myself that way. I feel guilty as ever now, but I don't know if I should tell her. I do not want her to think of me as gay, because that was a definite eye opener to myself that I am not. I will never do it again (did not enjoy it), nor would I ever do it with another woman. Yet I still feel incredibly guilty. I'm afraid that telling her will ruin our relationship, but holding it in will weigh on my conscience for the rest of my life. I am truly regretful, but I'm in a predicament now. I need help and suggestions. What would you do, or how would you react? Is it cheating or just experimenting? And the big question; do I tell her? Any ideas welcome. Thank you!
2007-08-16
16:25:54
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ace r
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Marriage & Divorce