I had this boyfriend for a long time, we were together for about 4-5 years, then we broke up. For about a year or so we didn't see or spoke to each other. Then we met again, and we began talking and stuff, we have a nice friendship we're very close friends. Obviously Im still in love with him. He's never had another girlfriend after me, i mean he dates and stuff but not a gf. Same with me. Last night he called to tell me about this new girl he had been dating...and my advice was...take her out of the picture...forget about her ...and he said yeah i will...and he did it.
I need to know, how can I tell him that I still love him without being...umm ridiculous? or how can i get to see him just as a very close friend, who usually tells me nice things and invites me to dinner and hangs out w me a lot? THANKS
2007-08-16 16:23:10 · 7 answers · asked by Mrsprincessconsuelabananahammock 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Ok, here's my advice...wait a few more signs...by few I really mean few, and be aware every second you spend with him from now on . Then tell him in a nice sweet un-compromising why how you feel and kinda let him remember how great u where together... I'm convinced by what you say here, that he's still sooo into you...Guys usually don't act this way..and still I'm pretty sure he's the only ex u still talk to...am i right? Go ahead he loves u too!
2007-08-20 14:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Think about this what do you want and what do you think he wants but if takes it the other way and you lose your very good friendship that would be a bad thing but you need to do what you want and feel you need to do. If he trusts you about a gf then why not I've never seen 2 people so close but not that close. Don't be afraid to show that u love him its a natural emotion and im sure unless hes a major jacka** we will come back to you like 2 magnets and you don't know if he wants to get back together with you so good luck and i wish you the best.
2007-08-16 16:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by p00nin1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him. If it was meant to be it will happen but do not smother him or make him feel as if you are controlling his personal relationships. If he asks for advice just tell him to do what feels right and not for the reason you still have feelings for him. Maybe you can ask him out of the blue what went wrong between the two of you and how it makes him feel to be friends again. Simple conversations can bring things up but let him to be the one to bring it up. Just be his shoulder to lean on and dont push the issue or you could lose him all together. Goodluck in your choice !
2007-08-16 16:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by kenogirlmd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he shouldn't be just a very close friend...there may be a larger reason that the two of you met up again...
: )
2007-08-16 16:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by rockiebattles411 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just tell him. don't beat around that f'n bush just tell him whats up, i like you do you still like me. i won't freak if you don't, we can still be friends. (you can clean it up a bit.)
all he can say is hey i think we are better friends and break your heart. but thats okay just be cool about it. and say yeah i'm sure your right, it was just wanted to give you one more chance.
2007-08-16 16:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Neev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you have feelings for him, and (or), Just say, that you would really like to stay really close friends with him, like, you don't want to not have nothing to do with eachother.
2007-08-16 16:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Less than zero (<0) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋