After many years of emotionally abusive and dysfunctional family behavior, after a final explosion that involved father saying he would sue for visitation of grandchildren he did not even know and so on and so on, he walked away. Now, he is thinking he should go back (just because they are his parents) and he wants me to be supportive. I have done this over and over and just cannot do it again.
I know if I say "Just go without me and leave me out of it" he will, but eventually I will be dragged into it and I know that once again his parents will come between us.
My question is this....Should I fight for us, to be together with just us, or should I say go ahead and be with them even though I know it will be the end of our marriage ?
I am so torn up over this I dont know what to do. We tried counseling, but he does not like going, and now we cant afford it.
Please help...Thank you
2006-11-27
01:47:22
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WUDDALIFE
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Marriage & Divorce