Ive recently split up with my g/f after a 4 year relationship and a child that is now 8 months old.
I was horrible to her, meaning I was selfish, unloving, moody all of the time and very off hand. One minute im ok and in a good mood the next im horrible and in a terrible mood.
I never changed before and didnt realise what i had until it all disappeared.
I personaly think my problems could be due to the way i was brought up, as i seen lots of violence and abuse in my younger years and i always had to think of myself and look after myself as most of the time there was no one else to do things for me. I left home at the age of 15, maybe this is why i am so selfish and find it hard to show love, as ive never been shown any different.
I recently asked to be reffered to a Phsychaiatrist so i can get some professional help wich i am now waiting on for an appointment. Im really putting in the effort and ive admited ive got a problem, How do i get her to love me again or will i ever
2006-11-27
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