she is being called ugly ,african S***T, you stink you black.The sad part is that all this is said by another black child who is not african by birth.
2006-11-27 01:45:09 · 13 answers · asked by queen of peace 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Well as you know, Black people rarely stick together. According to our ancestry, we are all African by birth.
I would suggest contacting the principal of the school and the other child's parents to have a sit down to rectify this situation. Let the child know that is totally uncalled for.
Furthermore, I would suggest that the child being slurred try to ignore the comments. Easier said than done, but if one ignores foolish acts, it makes life a little easier.
2006-11-27 01:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritoso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's terrible. Your daughter must be very hurt that anyone would say something like this to her.
Growing up, I dated mostly Asian men. I would get called all kinds of names. I was even asked if I wanted to eat their dog for supper... My parents helped me by explaining the ignorance of some people and by just being there for me. I also reported these people to the school.
The school should be made aware of the problem. Your daughter has every right to attend school without being harrassed. The parents of this child need to know what their child is saying to other kids at school. I suspect your daughter is not the only one being harrassed by this kid.
2006-11-27 09:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by sioballen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bullying is a sad part of school. It's always sad when the insults focus on stereotypes of a child's attributes (ex. Race, weight, height, gender, etc.). Of course you should go to the teacher AND the principal, but you should also talk to the child. I was teased a lot in school but I was able to rise above it because my parents always kept my self-esteem high. If a child's self-esteem can be kept high outside of school, taunting and teasing won't affect them as much.
2006-11-27 09:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Nick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bullying is a sad part of our children school life. I don't have kids and I'm not sure how to deal with it but it seems the best course of action is to notify the teachers, the principal about what's happening. But I can imagine that would lead to more bullying from other kids because she "snitched" but sometimes we have to make tough decisions. I don't think letting your child being traumatized and bullied is okay.
Good luck!
2006-11-27 09:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dahlia O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By making the child Prideful of all those things! How can you slur me by calling me Black when to me Black is Beautiful, Exotic, and the original state of all men! Teach her that she is the Mother of All!, from her came all great kings and queens. In her is the blood of all the prophets, teachers, and leaders. Make her proud and the other child will not only stop but learn to respect her. How do I know? It worked for me.
2006-11-27 09:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by solomonfever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's heartbreaking, really. As an adult, I can think of many biting answers that you can teach her, but I don't think it is right to teach to hurt. Maybe you can tell her someone who has hidden vulnerabilities may attack like this. In any case, I too think you should contact the parents, though I donot believe someone who raises a slandering kid would be too sensitive to your concerns. The school has responsibility to stop hate speech, too.
2006-11-27 09:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Totally Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the teacher the school has a legal responsibility to protect the child from harrassment. If they don't they can be liable for damages
2006-11-27 09:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your daughter to tell this bi.tch to stop hatin', you stupid jealous wh0re. I bet she wishes she was born black on birth.. what a fu.cking hypocrite this kid is.. doesn't matter if her nationality isn't black, she's still black on the outside, and she is making fun of her same culture.. Can somebody please teach this "Not black by birth" child what nationality's are and what hypocrisy is.
ooh, and go tell your girl to beat the sh.it out of this little wigger.
2006-11-27 09:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Julio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the school and give the bully a right earful, then notify your childs teacher and the principal.
2006-11-27 09:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first guy...
It is a lose, lose, situation for me to try and say anything that will help, so I won't...
There are very obvious answers and reasons here... Just open your eyes and look, then open your mouth and do what you need to do!
Girls can be 10 times more vicious than boys... It is just the way it is.
2006-11-27 09:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋